My stunning girlfriend of 4months broke up with me and she listed a lot of reasons. It was a very intense relationship and I apologised and agreed with her on things and promised her I’d do better.
I didn’t beg her but acted scared of losing her. In the end no amount of convincing worked. I also feel like it made me pathetic as she was quite mean to me and I was accepting everything she said to try and retain her.
She said we could still be friends. I said no.
I told her to never contact me again, proceeded to remove her off of instagram. It’s been a month and I’ve not messaged her once and she has not been in contact. If she really likes me she still can get in touch I guess.
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Doesn’t matter. If she hasn’t reached out, she’s clearly not interested in getting back together with you.
Correct. Do you think I communicated weakness in the end
No..
Do you think it’s strength that I didn’t bother chasing, got rid of her and sent no essays?
Yes.
Whitney, watch out for your boy Alex-Snow. Search for the old account Summiter and you’ll recognize it all lol
Even if you felt "pathetic" during the breakup itself, your follow-up actions entirely changed the narrative. Now you can lick your wounds and deal with it.
She ended the relationship and it sounds like you responded correctly and plan to move on.
Summiter here is 34 and married so he is an expert
immaturity
Why?
because it is polluted with ruminating thoughts and ideas...
the description also indicates a serious lack of balance and introspection, usually from a lack of experience or a failure to learn from experience
and all this points out to... immaturity
on the other side though... very good chances to learn some lessons, we all were there at some point
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