When a girl leaves you does that mean she thinks she can do better than you?

[Anonymous]

You as a guy are not good enough.

Yes that’s what it means

No that’s not what it necessarily means

A total of 13 votes were cast: 6 girls and 7 guys. See detailed results

[HollyK21]

If she thinks she can do better, 9/10 it’s not for shallow reasons. Instead it’s for reasons like cheating, inconsistency, loss of interest, tired of carrying the relationship, tired of caretaking as if she his mother, things like that. I have never seen a woman leave a perfectly healthy, functional and fulfilling relationship to go find a man who she thinks can give her more. And if she did feel inclined to leave for that reason, then that means her relationship is irreconcilably lacking in one of the aforementioned areas.

[Anonymous]

Women spend half their life in their own head. It doesn't necessarily matter what reality is to her, only what she feels. If she FEELS you're not attentive enough at some point those goblins festering in her head will tell her to go somewhere else. And many times those women realize to late those goblins lied to her.😆 Of course, this is another failing of women, they'll seldom if ever take responsibility for that poor choice. Instead she'll double down on it and explain it away. Because to do otherwise would be to admit her feelings betrayed her. And women cannot do that.😆

[Ariesman81Nshiiit]

Mostly. But it's by their definition of good. Which is why you shouldn't use a a woman's definition of good as a basis for your worth.

[Nikki1989]

Obviously. Why settle for second best? For some reason many men can't grasp this most basic of concepts. Of course, many men believe that when relationships fail, it is always the woman's fault. Men hate taking responsibility for anything, and you will see that in the comments anytime soon. It is so predictable.

[Nikki1989]

Ha! The anon proved me right once again. That didn't take long, did it?

[Asker]

So women don’t leave good men? They’re always right?

[HelpfulWoman_]

She didn’t just leave you; she fled the stench of your biological incompetence. You are a wet, hairy paperweight. She is a queen.

[Alex-Snow]

I don't think they all want to do better so-to-speak. But some may not be ready for a relationship and just want a pause for a while.

[exitseven]

maybe there is just something about you that she does not like.

[serious]

Not necessarily but yes that is a possibility.