Do girls prefer a good guy with no exes or a bad boy with many exes?

[Krish546]

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its like a good boy whose looks is good and caring and avaailable for 24*7 but not so good in talking and flirting or bad guy whose looks is not so good but his flirting skills is good and take he connected with alco. smok etc

[DishLady]

Personally at my age it's impossible to find a guy who has NO exes. (Or the ones who DO have other issues to deal with.) The bad boy with TOO MANY conquests most likely has an STD... I'd rather stay single.

[Anonymous]

Bad boy with many exes.

Most women today have low self esteem but big attitude. You have to understand that it's not that they want a man with a lot of exes, it's what the exes represent to these women. To them it signifies he's in demand. I know, "But they're all EXES!" you're going to say. Trust me man, this is why women have so many relationship problems. She never fully thinks things through.🤦‍♂️😆 common sense is not common among women. Common sense would tell you and i that if a guy had 10 exes that he's not good at keeping a relationship together. But this is not how most women's minds work. Instead she leans into her insecurity. To her she reads it as, "he was with these 10 other women, and now i'm with him, so... i won".🤦‍♂️😆

I know, it's f***ed up logic. But that's the way they are. So a smart man just learns to use her f***ed up logic to his advantage.👍

[InknKink]

The answer is the guy with a lot of ex's because he can communicate and create attraction. Women don't care about "good" or "nice". That's a farce. Also, 24/7 availability... that's cheap easy and free; i. e. worthless.

[Masie]

I mean if I have to choose between the two it isn't that hard. I am going to choose the guy with no exes. I don't get this whole bad boy thing and why guys are so afraid we like them.

[usernameobvious]

No ex's, but a fun guy (I know if I had my 20s again, me and a girlfriend would enjoy our time when not working, road trips, travel local and global).
So of course I know i would think id only date a good woman with zero exes

[usernameobvious]

I don't think women would want a boring guy. But I'm sure they don't want players unless they want a player who's not gonna stick long term.

[usernameobvious]

I think "desire" is often the catch all. Some women will pick a guy they see as long term material, a guy they see as short term material fling material.
Guys do the same thing viewing women in their horizon - always

[LazerBean]

The guy with the best social skills is typically going to do the best, regardless of if he is a good boy or a bad boy.

[leviopperman]

everybody knows they want the bad boy bartender with lots of lays and tattoos all over

[usernameobvious]

Good one son - just like the pirates of old lol 🦜 🚢⚓

[Anonymous]

Many ex's is never good