I like a hybrid. Being 28 years of age, I will say with confidence, you will never solely get the good girl or bad girl. Each girl I have met is a mixture of the 2.
Women mature as they age (depends on the girl), so even the "bad girl" can become a reformed person. Also, just because someone drinks and smokes doesn't make them a "bad" or "edgy" person. Like, 90% of America drinks. Lol. And it depends how you define smoking.
At my age, I will say I will not date a girl who parties a lot, hooks up a lot or has that "kid" mindset. I do, however, want a woman who dresses nice, is hot/sexy, works out, has a career and knows what she wants out of life. I don't care if she has hooked up in the past. It all depends on who she is now.
Also... on the smoking thing... people who smoke aren't considered "bad" or "edgy" either. I have my life together and I smoke weed. I don't smoke it actively and never will. I only smoke it like 2-3 times a year and only during sex. My last partner introduced me to weed during sex and it increases the pleasure of sex by a lot. Lol. So, that's the only time I smoke.
Good girls. They are actual humans. Like, you don't have to play games and watch over your back with them. You can discuss real. things and have a real life. No man wants to be married 8yrs and find out his kids are somebody elses and his wifes been cheating on him throughout the marriage and finally takes all his earnings and property while calling him out to be a racist, sexist neglectful. husband that couldnt fulfil her needs.
I actually like kids. I dont want a girl that feels she's entitled to beat and terrorize children. Terrorize her peers. Terrorize the public. I want kids to grow up in hapoy, loving homes. not a bad girls home
almost every guy in my school is hanging with party girls who likes to get drunk, so it’s weird reading these replies.
I am the quiet, nice girl who haven’t drank any alcohol in my life, I have good grades and i’m nice to everyone.
Still I haven’t had a boyfriend. They always go for the extroverted, loud girls with a lot guys around them.
Can't I be both; I drink, USED to do hookups, looks modest--but edgy
Not everything is BLACK AND WHITE... unless you're strictly talking about stereotypes?
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I like Good Girls who are bad only in the bedroom.
Hmm. I’ll be very honest to you as a 25 year old.
1. Your question is ‘what do guys want.’ Wrong question. Be who you want.
2. Do good girls have to look not hot? No. Do bad girls have to look hot? No.
There’s no dichotomy between hot or not like that.
Here’s the catch, I do find ‘bad girl’ clothes hot. As weird as it is, when I see girls in crop tops I swoon. I don’t care for heels at all. I’m not a fan of the over straightend middle part and the Kardashian-style look.
That said, I do find long hair hot. I do find extra skin showing hot. I do find a waist narrower than the hips hot.
I think the answer to your question is to take the good points of both your notions and combine them together. It is possible to be both ‘good’ and ‘bad.’
Go to a party once in a while and be ‘bad.’ But go to class the next day and be ‘good.’ Go to work or volunteer and be ‘good.’ Then go out and be ‘bad.’ Or do whatever you like most 24/7.
That’s the real trick, I think. But don’t forget about non-mainstream night life as well. Explore beyond the hip-hop cookie cutter nightclub. Check out a pop-punk venue, and a normal bar. Check out a retro disco. Try ballroom salsa. Go to a beach or pool. Try out new things like rock climbing or snorkeling or surfing or snowboarding or skateboarding.
These other venues have high quality men at them. Hip hop and edm night clubs attract pickup artists and roided out dudes. Which is cool once in a while, but go out and find a variety too.
Follow your tastes. If you live hip hop and are a real fan, then stick with that. If you secretly like something else in the closet, seek out night life that pertains to that.
These places have different crowds. Each crowd has different tastes in women. However, I think I everyone loses when girls try to fake it in the hip hop subculture if that’s not them.
That said. It seems the place to be today is the edm night club scene. It’s where all the hookups are happening. I wouldn’t be surprised if no one cared for the music much and everyone was there just to get sexual for a night. cool but I wish people would just go to venues they actually like for the music with the same intent as well. Anyways.
I prefer bad girls. They are confident, flirty, and make things happen without being ashamed to get sexual. They also dress better cause they don't have insecurities with their body. Again the confidence is the big selling point. They also put effort into dates cause they know a decent guy will move on if he feels like a walking credit card with a dick.
I would say I am good girl. that like pushing forward and being able be a bit confinement. Love my video game. that helps me to get through the day and have a goal. More tomboy. Sometimes I only wear dresses on special occasions. Very joking around. Dark sense of how. Never cheated on any own while in relationship. Been cheated on more then once in past relationships 8&7.
Does drinking is a bad habbit , i never used any kind of drunks yet but I don't care if my girl want to use that. Also I don't think compare a girl with this things.
I used to love a girl. She was a good girl according to this point. She gone by tearing my heart and now I can't even face my family. So I can't agree with your points. I prefer someone understands me more that her habits.
While its more complicated that binary distinction. I do remember reading about psychological research which did suggest guys prefer good girls. Which is something reflected in dating choices of guys. Most guys still want a partner they can take to their mums.
I wouldn't like any girl be it good or bad who smokes, heavy drinker and is promiscuous.
If you were to put a gun to my head and make me choose? Good.
Problem is that good girls often don't communicate and they tend to get scared easily. Both are a problem for me because I'm very good at communicating ((and thus have a hard time relating to someone who can't communicate)), and I'm known to be kind of intimidating to girls. I don't know what it is about me but they get so skiddish and defensive with me.
An equal that doesn’t take my bs is the girl I want.
There’s always benefits of each type, a good girl will be an excellent mother and can stand with me when we establish our future.
The bad girl, would be fun to be around and will push me out of my comfort zone to always live young.
Perhaps many men prefer the “bad girl” for flings or short term set ups, like hookups or one night stands. While, the “good girl” is for more long term relationships. I think this is the popular and most established belief when it comes to this topic
If were just looking for sex we like bad girls. If we want a serious relationship we want good girls. Note. Once you go down the bad girl path a bit many men will never take you seriously as a good girl... ever!
Good only.
I am good.
Never tasted or smelled alcohol
Never tried smoking
Patriotic nationalist
Feminist of the eastern world
Nowadays, I think, I shouldn't call myself a feminist because I don't support women's bullshit
I am not sweet
I am am old fashioned , boring and sadistic.
I don't like party or loud music.
I dance for myself
I am religious,
I am not a Christian or Muslim.
I believe in science but I don't think that it is perfect.
I think the allure of a "bad girl" is because on the surface they seem easy (not meaning sexually) it seems like they're more honest and forthright with their feelings i. e. acts like one of the guys. But it's all an act! In reality a guy WANTS a good girl he just doesn't always know it right away ( and if he doesn't he's not a guy worth having). Anything worth having will always take work! And good women do.
Good girls 24/7. I’d give absolutely anything just to had one of them for myself. That is because she is much more trustworthy and we have a much higher chance at having a serious relationship
Depends on the guy
My ex was into wild and bad girls and broke up with me because I was to much of a good girl.
My boyfriend loves everything about me.
There is too much of a gap between these two extremes. I do not give a f*** how many guys she could have had before me. A woman should be able to have all the fun she wants. The smoking thing is not my type tough. Definitely I like her to look hot and definitely I want to be able to do things when I date. Doing the same things is quite boring.
Bad girl, minus the smoking.
Apart from the immature concepts, they prefer 'good' girls for something serious like marriage and 'bad' girls for using and throwing away like trash.
doesn't matter to me tbh, if we clicked and she isn't the type to cheat then I would have a relationship with her
Good girls who know how to be feminine and girly are my type. Conservative, calm, cute, sweet, wife and mother material.
For me it would really come down to loyalty and honesty. I wouldn't have a problem with a girl who likes to drink and party as long as she's loyal
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