For me it would really come down to loyalty and honesty. I wouldn't have a problem with a girl who likes to drink and party as long as she's loyal
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I consider myself a good girl. But all of my exes consider me a psycho who enjoyed making their lives hell. I wasn’t “good for their mental health” Lmao yeah ok 🤷🏼♀️
I’m sure I’m in the same situation. They even spread rumors about me and called me crazy. In reality, I’m being called crazy because I don’t like being disrespected and I call people out.
Yup. That’s happened to me twice. The first time, I really loved that guy - and was devastated when he literally told me ‘you’re too innocent for me’ and ended things with me then and there. And because I was upset, he then told all his friends that I was ‘crazy obsessed’ with him. At the time, that broke my heart to be quite honest.
Then, a few years later, my other ex was even worse. Raising any issues or concerns meant that I was a psycho. And in the end when we split up, he told one of his friends about how I was a ‘psycho’ and warned him to let other guys know that.
I just don’t get it, it’s like purposefully trying to destroy my credibility. And I would consider myself a decent person.
@EmiliaRose2355 i think some guys do it so they don’t get into your pants... I called 4 girls crazy... One called the cops on me just because I ignore her and because I was flirting with other girls and didn’t gave her attention, she was piss at me for that when she was sleeping around with other dudes, plus I told her she like attention and that triggered her.. she even made an email pretending to her mom and try to blackmail me in calling the cops on me lol... The second one was saying that I whistle at her when I don’t even know how to whistle and that I was texting her with different numbers, I told her she was being paranoid and that someone as handsome as me talk to other girls and not just her, she was a self centered girls who said she will marry a guy who owns a petroleum company she is like 19-20 now... The last one said she carried pepper spraid because she knows I spend time on the library at campus at night and that I might stalk her when she leave the library that she even got the cops to walk her to ther apartment lmao... She felt threatened when I texted her that she should delete my number from her phone and that she shouldn’t be asking guys for their number if she wasn’t going to text and act like a child... Actually there is a 4th one haven’t called no her crazy, she told her boyfriend a bunch of lies which was she exposed later on because for some reason she abren ky guys and I don't know who she was lmao... she knew my name and Facebook and I didn’t know nothing of her lol... she try to accuse me in a group chat of campus with 2k people but someone exposed her for false accusations and after they she got all quiet even though I was exposed as a flirtman lol...
Those are the only times I ever called a girl crazy and I’m a guy who talk to a lot of girls and from all of them only those 3 had been crazy..
@EmiliaRose2355 if she isn’t doing anything crazy like those 4 paranoid girls I had met then she is just getting called crazy so whoever of those guys who is interested in that girl won’t make a move on that girl
Oh well, that’s happened to me! Many guys were warned off of me. So, why would guys do that? If they don’t want you, then why don’t they want any other guy to have you?
@EmiliaRose2355 because it is awkward for a guy to have his friend being with his ex.. To be more clear, it is something like this... Let’s say I date you, I might or might not had sex with you but we were together then we broke up. Then I get interested in your best friend, she is also interested... you wouldn’t like the though of me having sex with her right? Even if you say it is okay you wouldn’t feel comfortable as you were having sex with me first and then your best friend unless you don’t care. Some people care and some don’t and in my point of view he does care and still feel attracted towards you, he is just being self centered.
Right, I’m with you now. I never slept with any of my exes, so couldn’t really understand why they were so awful towards me. It wasn’t even their close friends they passed this onto. Once of them told a friend of a friend to tell my current boyfriend that I’m a psycho - just lucky he didn’t listen to them 😌
@EmiliaRose2355 even more they didn’t slept with you so he doesn’t want your current boyfriend to sleep with you now... But if I was one of your ex, I wouldn’t had called you crazy... I just can’t do it unless you were acting crazy lol, I’m not even good at lying so I don’t lie to people..
Unfortunately there is something about bad girls that many men find attractive, but bad girls don't make good girlfriends / wives. I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with a bad girl, no matter how attractive might she be. There are more important things than attractiveness.
how about neither : how about normal? that drinks when she wants, goes to parties IF she wants, smokes if she wants, looks either cute or hot but is faithful
Actually boys say that they prefer good girls but actually they like bad girls firhaving fun and so one and when they got finished with them they start looking for good girls...
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For me it would really come down to loyalty and honesty. I wouldn't have a problem with a girl who likes to drink and party as long as she's loyal
I consider myself a good girl. But all of my exes consider me a psycho who enjoyed making their lives hell. I wasn’t “good for their mental health”
Lmao yeah ok
🤷🏼♀️
🙋🏻♀️ heard that one before too! When actually, it was the other way round all along 🤦🏻♀️
I’m sure I’m in the same situation. They even spread rumors about me and called me crazy. In reality, I’m being called crazy because I don’t like being disrespected and I call people out.
Yup. That’s happened to me twice. The first time, I really loved that guy - and was devastated when he literally told me ‘you’re too innocent for me’ and ended things with me then and there. And because I was upset, he then told all his friends that I was ‘crazy obsessed’ with him. At the time, that broke my heart to be quite honest.
Then, a few years later, my other ex was even worse. Raising any issues or concerns meant that I was a psycho. And in the end when we split up, he told one of his friends about how I was a ‘psycho’ and warned him to let other guys know that.
I just don’t get it, it’s like purposefully trying to destroy my credibility. And I would consider myself a decent person.
@EmiliaRose2355 i think some guys do it so they don’t get into your pants...
I called 4 girls crazy...
One called the cops on me just because I ignore her and because I was flirting with other girls and didn’t gave her attention, she was piss at me for that when she was sleeping around with other dudes, plus I told her she like attention and that triggered her.. she even made an email pretending to her mom and try to blackmail me in calling the cops on me lol...
The second one was saying that I whistle at her when I don’t even know how to whistle and that I was texting her with different numbers, I told her she was being paranoid and that someone as handsome as me talk to other girls and not just her, she was a self centered girls who said she will marry a guy who owns a petroleum company she is like 19-20 now...
The last one said she carried pepper spraid because she knows I spend time on the library at campus at night and that I might stalk her when she leave the library that she even got the cops to walk her to ther apartment lmao... She felt threatened when I texted her that she should delete my number from her phone and that she shouldn’t be asking guys for their number if she wasn’t going to text and act like a child...
Actually there is a 4th one haven’t called no her crazy, she told her boyfriend a bunch of lies which was she exposed later on because for some reason she abren ky guys and I don't know who she was lmao... she knew my name and Facebook and I didn’t know nothing of her lol... she try to accuse me in a group chat of campus with 2k people but someone exposed her for false accusations and after they she got all quiet even though I was exposed as a flirtman lol...
Those are the only times I ever called a girl crazy and I’m a guy who talk to a lot of girls and from all of them only those 3 had been crazy..
For some reason she hate my guts*
Got problems when I text fast
So some guys do this to stop other guys from liking the girl then?
@EmiliaRose2355 if she isn’t doing anything crazy like those 4 paranoid girls I had met then she is just getting called crazy so whoever of those guys who is interested in that girl won’t make a move on that girl
Oh well, that’s happened to me! Many guys were warned off of me. So, why would guys do that? If they don’t want you, then why don’t they want any other guy to have you?
@EmiliaRose2355 because it is awkward for a guy to have his friend being with his ex..
To be more clear, it is something like this...
Let’s say I date you, I might or might not had sex with you but we were together then we broke up.
Then I get interested in your best friend, she is also interested... you wouldn’t like the though of me having sex with her right? Even if you say it is okay you wouldn’t feel comfortable as you were having sex with me first and then your best friend unless you don’t care. Some people care and some don’t and in my point of view he does care and still feel attracted towards you, he is just being self centered.
Right, I’m with you now. I never slept with any of my exes, so couldn’t really understand why they were so awful towards me. It wasn’t even their close friends they passed this onto. Once of them told a friend of a friend to tell my current boyfriend that I’m a psycho - just lucky he didn’t listen to them 😌
@EmiliaRose2355 even more they didn’t slept with you so he doesn’t want your current boyfriend to sleep with you now... But if I was one of your ex, I wouldn’t had called you crazy... I just can’t do it unless you were acting crazy lol, I’m not even good at lying so I don’t lie to people..
Unfortunately there is something about bad girls that many men find attractive, but bad girls don't make good girlfriends / wives. I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with a bad girl, no matter how attractive might she be. There are more important things than attractiveness.
good girls who can turn up the bad girl in private:)
@ChetAtkins That's it!:)
I'm a good girl and I got in all of those except I hookup with a lot of guys when I get sad
Your not good then, you a bad one who got low sel steem
Good girl who makes herself precious and not pricless..
As for bad girls..
( who drinks milk free.. won't buy the cow)
I also don’t feel good or bad. I’m pretty straight edge, but I’m not so boring that I’ve never done anything bad.
how about neither : how about normal?
that drinks when she wants, goes to parties IF she wants, smokes if she wants, looks either cute or hot but is faithful
Bad for adventures..
Good for a serious relationship...
Bad always will be better.
Or good girl but is actaully psycho. Like cute but psycho.
i would have to say that it depends on the kind of guy , their taste can vary
Good guys prefer good girls, and bad guys prefer bad girls. It's not rocket science.
Im a good girl, but I have a drink or two with coworkers from time to time
The same way girls like guys. Good people, with well to do morals and ethics. But when in the bedroom they’re freaks
Many guys prefer bad girls. I guess that means that there's still an ounce of hope for me yet, since I actually prefer the more "boring" good girls.
Good girl= sweet, doesn't smoke/drink, doesn't do hookups, looks innocent and cute.
To be honest wsnt a good girl. I dont drink party smoke or do drugs.
I like good girls with a helluva kinky way of living :P
Actually boys say that they prefer good girls but actually they like bad girls firhaving fun and so one and when they got finished with them they start looking for good girls...
The thing is good girls are too hard and boring, while bad girls are too easy and crazy. I would like the betweener
Not all bad girls are easy and not all the good ones are boring..
I meet a lot of good girls and a few bad ones and a few in-between lol
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I would rather have a mix of the two, a good girl that can be bad when appropriate.