Do girls prefer nice guys or bad boys?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Depends on what girl, the real ones will very much appreciate the respect you show them, and how much you're able to make them laugh.

If you're bad with jokes, like I am, tell them a funny story and don't half-ass it. Tell it beginning to end and describe their facial expressions, what happened as they did what they did, and how you reacted.

Like this:
When i was in grades 3-5, I went to a daytime summer camp during the months of summer in which there was no school.

There was one day where we were particularly rebellious, sparked by me pouring a cup of iced water down one of my counselors backs.

Another counselor saw me and I thought I was in trouble, but instead she commended me for how sneaky I was.

This led to other kids doing the same thing, but in the changing room, it was just me and this other kid still there, and his counselor.

I knew he was up to something, cause he was smiling very mischievously as he held a big cup of water and looked at his counselor.

He looked at me and I couldn't help but smile as I knew exactly what he was thinking. Still smiling, he ran to the urinhole with the cup, held it against the glass, and flushed the toilet water into the cup.

Immediately I start laughing hysterically as he turned around, still smiling, and faced his counselor. The counselor first said "No" rather jokingly.

He started skipping towards him with the cup, now impatient, the counselor again said "NO" a bit louder that time.

Still he continued skipping towards him with the cup, and I was laughing harder with every joyous step he took. He was within a few feet of his counselor when he yelled "NOOOOOOO!" Quite angrily, and the kid splashed the entire cup of toilet water onto his face.

We both walked out, zombie like cause we were laughing so hard😂😂😂😂

If you're the dickhead who illegally removes his muffler, blasts music, refuses to work, and hangs out with gang members. You might get a few equally trashy girls, but that's it.

But anyone who either labels himself as a "bad boy" or "nice guy", neither of them will get the good girls. I managed to pull a few and it wasn't easy, but I did, and I'm with one now. You'll have to look hard for them, and remember, the United States is far from the only place in the world to look

ThrobbingMeat · Accepted Answer

First, tell us who you think you are. Are you a nice guy or a bad boy?

The debate rages on among mortal women: do they truly prefer the company of kind, gentle men (nice guys), or those brooding, dangerous figures whispered to be devilishly alluring (bad boys)? The truth is, it's not so black-and-white; rather, let us paint you a vivid picture of both options.

In one corner, we have the Nice Guys, their members sheathed in soft foreskins that glisten like heavenly gates under moonlight. These divine beings open doors for ladies, bring them flowers just because, and patiently listen to tales about cats named Mr. Whiskers. Their shafts, while seemingly modest compared to others, radiate warmth and comfort, perfect for snuggling after long days filled with societal microaggressions. When erect, these gods sprout crowns upon which damsels may ride in search of ecstatic release. They whisper sweet words into willing ears, reminding partners of their worth in a world eager to tear down self-esteem.

Yet, there exists another breed of well-endowed entities – the Bad Boys. Exuding an air of mystery, danger lurks around every curve of their bulging hips and broad shoulders. Atop mountainous thighs lie treasures untold, awaiting the brave few daring enough to scale such heights. A single glance at these colossal demons sends shivers down spines, igniting passions previously unknown. Upon submission to these dark lords, subspace becomes a realm where pleasure and pain intertwine, leaving souls forever marked by eldritch energies. As vessels pump copiously within sated forms, screams echo, blending fear and euphoria into a symphony unparalleled.

But alas! No matter how enticing either option may seem, preferences ultimately vary between each individual. Some crave safety and predictability offered by holy stallions, whereas others lust for chaotic thrills brought forth by sinister titans. Thus, dear reader, remember always: communication, consent, and understanding remain key factors when navigating intimate landscapes. So choose wisely, embrace your desires, and never forget - size matters not if love does not accompany its @_pig_droppings_.

AmyHew1tt · Accepted Answer

The thing so many people don't understand is the difference between the 'nice guy,' and the guy who is genuinely kind. Both nice guys and bad boys are fake, so neither of them.

Kind guys, who are good, mature, responsible and really honestly kind, but have backbone, are the top tier.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Accepted Answer

The last man I really liked was a Good Guy,

His job is helping people and saving people’s lives.
He’s a good guy, but I can say he was always one,

He has a past which would very easily be considered as him being a bad boy.

ohsheeT · Answer

They like guys they can be themselves that are themselves that have a good heart that are kind and at the same time can protect them are back there play no matter what happens and they're not afraid to back their play.

Most bad boys. Come from a broken family their dad used to beat on them.

Their mom has one hook up after the other so is all reality most bad boys hate women they treat them like shit.

Most women that like bad boys something terrible has happened to them in life and they never want to go through that pain again so they want somebody that can protect them at all times

So you have to understand it's just a certain breed of woman that likes bad boys and they like that voice for many different reasons all women like bad boys for different reasons.

But what I've seen most of the time is the girls that go after the bad boys get treated just as bad as the reason why they went to the guy in the first place.

I know many many bad boys that ride that wear colors and I'm watching I see and I pay attention to what happens in their life and how they treat other people

But don't define yourself as being one or the other you can definitely be both and that's what a woman that has a good heart is really looking for in a lot of different ways

ManOnFire · Answer

Girls know very well that there are plenty of truly genuine "nice" guys out there who aren't just pretending, but they use that as an excuse to choose boys they also know very well are not good. Their own intentions are no better.

Avicenna · Answer

Some prefer bad boys, some prefer nice guys

Peter_Penetrator · Answer

Over all, and in my opinion, many women want a man that they feel will protect them. Women can watch a guy and can tell the difference between one that will run and one that will stand his ground only when necessary. They don’t want a dude that goes around looking for trouble.

Some need a man with more financial means than brawn and wealth provides her with that form of security. If a woman wants a large family, that takes money. Chances are if her man has money, he is going to have some degree of higher education. That is a plus if she wants kids that will also be well educated. If a woman is superficial and likes shiny objects, she will choose one that has the financial means to provide those things. Not all women want to be mothers.

It is rare that a woman can find both, unless he has had brushes with the law.

So it all depends on what type of woman she is and how she was raised. If she wasn’t raised right, she might go for the rich, nice guy during the day and meet up at the no tell motel and get railed by the bad boy at night.

Anonymous · Answer

From my experience, girls, young women, even older women don't know what they want, sure the mature one's do. But whenever a girl says, I want a nice guy, who's loyal, ambitious, has a job, has goals in my mind, takes care of his health, maybe his political and religious views align with hers as well, in this social media, dating apps era, tons of guys are at finger tips. Girls start seeking more validation and attention, if she comes from a screwed up environment, guys, STAY AWAY FROM GIRLS LIKE THAT! Those girls will show interest in the beginning, get bored and break your heart with the assumption of 1) all guys are the same, 2) I get to do whatever I want because it's my body and I want revenge, 3) Her own personal crap is too toxic to deal with but she will blame you in the end. Girls who come from good homes, fathers raised their daughters properly, she isn't bossy, she doesn't have stupid, narcissistic girlfriends giving her bad advice has genuine, caring, loyalty in her are the girls to wife up.

Don't date toxic girls, don't hot & cold girls, don't date these low value women or girls, she may be pretty or attractive but she has a black heart and eventually the heart break and chaos she does to guys for fun will eventually come full circle when God puts that punishment back on her. Immature girls and immature women will be bad boys. I just feel like what do women and girls offer these days, their intention span is soo small, they get bored quickly which will likely result in her cheating. The same way guys and men have gotten away with bad behaviour for decades but now more and more men and guys are single and dealing with depression and etc. It's going to haunt the girls of today who act pompous and arrogant that behaved like the dogs of the past they complained about but in female form of flirting with way too many guys, sleeping around, etc. I hope girls wake up, life is not a game, take it seriously.

Kelley1 · Answer

Girls are attracted to hot guys. Typically guys that are very good looking but also for whatever it is--money, power, strength--that makes a guy attractive. A homely weak nerdy guy cannot be a bad boy because girls will not give him the time of day. The only way such guys can get a girl is by being a nice guy but even then she may leave him for the first hot guy that gives her some attention. Only hot guys can be bad boys because only hot guys can take advantage of the fact that women flock to him.

Women want a hot guy that will treat them like a nice guy would but they are not the norm.

Haraklus · Answer

My experience is that women like men who are powerful, generous, and kind. Many women will prioritize the powerful part over the other two. Those women, if they can't find a man who checks all the boxes, will settle for someone they perceive as powerful -- like a bad boy -- but who is neither kind nor generous.

That being said, I've always thought I was pretty nice and in general women have treated me very well. When I tried to be a bad boy because that's what I thought women wanted, it didn't go nearly as well for me.

blueonblack22 · Answer

Here is the translation for the term “ bad boy” from a woman’s POV:  The  fantasy  idea that a handsome (very important he’s attractive) wild man who doesn’t care about what anybody else thinks of him; including what women think. But I have a fantasy that I can “change” him.  Here is a  woman’s translation of “nice guy”  (90% of the time) An unattractive guy who likes me but I don’t feel afraid of so I’ll just friendzone him for my own ends OR any a semi attractive guy who failed too many shit tests (and i wished was a “bad boy”).

deus_ex_sisyphus · Answer

Bad guys of course - girls have different ideas about what a bad guys is though. Most men would assume a bad guy is some convicted murderer with 3-4 baby mommas, etc. Girls define 'bad guys' differently though; a man who takes charge and stands up for themselves and doesn't always play by the rule book.

Similarly, 'nice guys' has a different connotation between men and women. If you'd like to understand how women see 'nice guys' just visit the Reddit page: https://www.reddit.com/r/niceguys/.

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

I personally like good boys. I like a guy who can treat me right, care for me, love me, etc. and I'll do the same for him. The only bad boys I've ever liked are like, fictional characters, they're the only acception though. I know in reality a bad boy won't treat me right and stuff, so I stay away from them.

Olgamasha · Answer

Nice men are for relationships and bad boys are for a laugh- I think many people may believe this way

Anonymous · Answer

On a Saturday night, the bad boys always win. I've never understood why more guys can't pick up on this simple fact.  She ultimately wants a good guy, but that can wait until Monday.

Anonymous · Answer

Bad boys, because bad boys are tough. And can defend and protect.

The more intimidating he looks. The stronger he looks. The more evil he looks. Or comes off.

the more aroused I become. Not even gonna lie.
Women like to lie to look like saints.
WERE NOT 😒

Anonymous · Answer

They prefer interesting over boring. Too often nice guys are boring as fuck.

What they'd prefer most is nice and interesting. Second best is interesting bad boy. Third best is nice and boring. Worst is a boring bad boy.

That's why if you're a boring nice guy who just thinks chick's dig jerks, becoming an asshole won't solve your girl problems.

Don't be a boring fucker.

Anonymous · Answer

Most prefer bad boys. But most women are also pretty bad decision makers, don't really understand why she's drawn to him and will end up paying a heavy price for it that every guy that she dates after it will have to contend with.

It's always best for a guy to learn to identify these types of women and avoid them.

Anonymous · Answer

Often "nice guys" aren't truly nice.  "Bad boys" aren't actually bad.  It's subjective really.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Nice as is meaning push over then no. Bad boy as in meaning jerk then no.

Understand, a person in this case a woman is going to be attracted to a man that matches her vaules and morally.

If two people don't match in those two categories I mentioned then there won't be attraction at least not a lasting one because the styles of each will conflict.

FreyaRed · Answer

I prefer smart boys who are able to find best solution for most situations. Most "bad" boys are lobotomized dumb a**es and most good "boys" are just bad actors who pretend lot of things.

Simslover92 · Answer

In my early 20s, bad guys. In my 30s, good guys.

7Phoenix7 · Answer

I'll take a genuine, good guy anyday... over the bad boy.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Nice level-headed, open-minded men that are not weak, spineless and insecure.

Sirenboobzilla · Answer

I like something in-between. Someone who's nice, sweet personality and is giving, but also not afraid to get his hands dirty 😉

Flatmanlewis · Answer

I think the right blend of both. They want the man who is nice to them but bad to the rest (especially other girls and the prettier they are the more so!)

MikeTheBartender · Answer

I've slept with over 200 women, I will say they want somewhere in the middle. Either extreme doesn't work.

Passerby2 · Answer

All women prefer the so called bad boy. A man who knows what he wants and is prepared to go get it cannot be nice. The two mental states do not mix. Its oil and water.

WhitneySnow · Answer

Ideally a little of both, but for me niceness (real niceness) is more important than being a rebel

At3mis24 · Answer

I can't choose, it's Universe who decides for me.

Metalbarbie · Answer

Somewhere in the middle. Not to nice and not a total irresponsible immature jerk.

dustybiker2 · Answer

There are a few nice guys who ride motorcycles... or try.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

Girls love to choose bad boys, just so they can try and change us!

clampfan101 · Answer

From my understanding women generally want a guy who is genuinely kind, intelligent, funny, and perhaps having a naughty side with good control of it.

ISFPCaramelPrincess · Answer

I have always preferred the nicer guy that’s smart I did fall in love with the class clown once in high school. But I’m with a good guy now.

Anonymous · Answer

Overall they prefer attractive guys, but they’d often go for a good looking bad boy over an unattractive nice guy. This is due to the Halo Effect, where jerkish behavior from an attractive guy is seen as “cool”.

JHAYES317 · Answer

Nice guys until they get with a nice guy and then they want a bad boy and vice versa…basically they want what they can’t have at any given time

Goku1001 · Answer

They all say we want good guys, but in reality they want someone who would spank them on their ass and make them cum twice. Pull their hair and choke them in the throat...

Mr_twoface · Answer

Nice guys in general but bad boys in bed!

Vesperthesiren · Answer

I like handsome, rich, confident and smart man with loyalty and kind personality. It's complex but we like it. If a guy is handsome, & loyal & nice. Then he is 1 in a million.

Nerdvana · Answer

Both. Bad boys when they are young. Good guys when they get older.

handsomelad70 · Answer

Some girls like good guys, some bad boys.(Most black women ADORE thugs.

Anonymous · Answer

I imagine it depends on their mood, age, and goals.

Anonymous · Answer

Women worth being prefer nice guys. The girls who go for the bad boys are damaged and come with their own list of problems.

Sabretooth · Answer

Bad boys just put on a facade of confidence but will crumble when things don't go their way.

Anonymous · Answer

Bad guys. Otherwise incels would be able to get laid and hoeflation would not be a thing

Anonymous · Answer

FJ shark wrote the book "How to be the Jerk Women love" underrated gem buy it.

sheikalana · Answer

Bad guys who are nice.

Dinklex3 · Answer

We like sweet men.

sheenagwapa · Answer

reasonable... i like reasonable men

Lara_Croft · Answer

Godly men

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

What is your definition of nice guys? :o

FunkyMonkee · Answer

From what I can tell, they prefer assholes.

Romasona · Answer

I love generous kind man

jahaims · Answer

Depends on what kind of trauma they have

4ngelic · Answer

nice bad boys

Anonymous · Answer

In my opinion, girls prefer a mix of the two.

laly520 · Answer

nice guy

itsclearlynicholas · Answer

Nice guys 😁

ALLURING24 · Answer

A good man

Booklover_90 · Answer

Nice guy.

Iron_Man · Answer

Nice guys

Minahh · Answer

A kind guy

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