What hobby instantly makes someone more attractive to you and why?

Question

Sometimes a hobby says a lot about a person without them even trying. Dancing, cooking, painting, writing, playing music, hiking, working out, reading, building things, gardening… it really can show confidence, creativity, patience, passion, discipline, or even a softer side of them.

Is there a hobby that immediately makes someone more attractive in your eyes?

HawkPerception · Accepted Answer

There's quite a few...

If they're into yoga, I instantly think they're feminine and care about their fitness, and ahem... they're flexible 😏

Then there's knitting... another feminine hobby and maybe I might feel the love with a handmade scarf or sweater, or they can hem my clothes to fit me.

If they like gaming, anime, and manga, but aren't one of those cosplayer gamer girls (too intense for me), it's also attractive simply because it's something we could enjoy doing together or understand our love of it.

Hiking and camping is another one. If they aren't afraid to rough it in the wilderness a bit, it's huge for me. I want a girl who looks forward to laying in the grass with me looking at the stars, or cuddling up by a campfire and just enjoying each other's company.

If they're interested in psychology and philosophy like I am... not the history of it or anything, but just interested in how people think and what makes them click as well as thinking about life in general, that's another really attractive interest.

Cooking is another one. I don't really care for baking because I try to stay away from sweets unless it's fruit or healthy desserts. But if a girl likes cooking it's again... feminine. And it also says she's not a modern feminist who thinks women cooking is oppressive. I cook a lot and I can make a few dishes pretty well consistently. I also like to try new recipes and love the feeling of people liking my food. But it's nice to have a partner who likes it too. Maybe we could cook together, ya know?

Dance is also attractive. Not anything that looks masculine breakdancing, but if she just knows how to move sensually, it can be a huge turn on. I'm personally a shitty dancer, but it doesn't change the fact it's attractive in a girl to me.

I'm sure there's more, but those are some that came to mind first.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Butter churning  Pottery

Crimsyjo · Accepted Answer

I'm a sucker for a guy playing guitar or drums. But mostly guitar as its more portable and solo. There's no connection to his character except maybe shows a level of dedication and memory. But mostly it's just so romantic even if they don't play to come across romantic lol

sage2021 · Accepted Answer

I would say a man who has the talent for fixing things and not just buy a new one or throw the broken on away.

I'm not sure that is a hobby necessarily, but it takes a special talent to fix things and make them like new again.

That's a real turn on for me. 🙂

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

I was about to say anything related to art, but it's not entirely true, not all arts. I'm mainly relating, lightly or fully, to

Conceptual art
Drawing
Painting
Photography
Sculpture
Applied arts
Cinematography
Writing
Music
Theater
Video games

That's right, I'm not really involved in dancing lol... But I'm slowly beginning to be, as I've got one friend bringing me to live performances mixing theater and dance

Staximus · Answer

I used to work at a couple different live music venues for years as a doorman. There’s been many times I’ve seen some smoking hot girl with some dude that either looks like a bum or acts like a total douche bag, or both. 9 times out of 10 it’s because he’s in a band, usually one of the bands playing that night. The rest because he’s rich or supplying her with drugs. Or all 3. Girls get too razzle-dazzled by that rockstar cool guy bullshit and will tolerate things they normally would not in a relationship for the status and image factor, which is superficial high school bullshit.

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

It's less what they do and more are they good at it in a way I find stimulating.

Like I'd be more attracted to a girl who collects stamps and knows the stories of all of them and she opens a book and it makes you go "how did you even get these"

Then one who plays guitar bad and thinks they're great.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

Any hobby where they are really good at it honestly.. Whether it be games, or knitting, or building Legos.. But I do feel really attracted to really smart women, and women who are flexible and can dance.. 😋..

Nikki1989 · Answer

Being a musician myself, I am drawn to other musicians. You can be strictly amateur, but if you have energy and passion for it, I feel instantly attracted.

MariaEve · Answer

I find it incredibly attractive when a man has mastered home repair and maintenance skills and takes on certain household tasks, especially if he views it as an enjoyable hobby, since I tend to be a bit lazy in that regard lol. That said, I have no objection to him learning other skills or pursuing his own activities, provided it does not negatively impact his commitments and duties as a partner.

OneViewpoint · Answer

Fitness and eating healthy. It says you didn't just pick a distraction to while away the hours in a day. You wisely chose something that would both keep you entertained and make your life better.

Micheal6918 · Answer

Reading because it makes someone thoughts to be broad

loveslongnails · Answer

Is BDSM a hobby, or a lifestyle? LOL Like the photo above, playing a musical instrument immediately makes someone more attractive in my eyes.

Phoenix98 · Answer

No not really there's no real hobby that would make me instantly attracted to someone.  I'm more likely to be attracted to someone's character then to a hobby they might possess.

exitseven · Answer

making beer.

Lliam · Answer

Cooking, gardening and yoga would really attractive. Photography, embroidery and a knack for crafts would be cool, too.

HighValue · Answer

My interest would increase if she was into gaming. Either board games or video games because I enjoy them both.

msc545 · Answer

I find women who are into sailing to be very attractive since it's my major hobby as well. I love both cruising and racing, and I've done a lot of it over the years. It would be nice to find a woman that would like to do it with me.

DryGermanGuy · Answer

Creative talent (painting, writing, music...).

MysticDevice · Answer

Anything to do with fitness. Taking care of yourself is always an attractive trait.  That and nerdy things. Cosplaying is really cool.

MikeTheBartender · Answer

Musicians and artists. I do both so it's a cool commanlity

Shiprex · Answer

Having a hobby that lets someone show how passionate they are about something is attractive

LiamJHayden · Answer

If she sings, plays an instrument, surfs, or is decent at chess, or any combination of the aforementioned, I will be interested.

AydenHazor · Answer

Dancing and cooking stand out to me, both things we can do together, one with a larger community and one with just the two of us

Anonymous · Answer

Playing cards, collecting records, playing a musical instrument, getting into old cartoons. Buty absolutely NONE of it is mandatory!

SmartAss06 · Answer

For me a woman who can write poems for me. That's very very romantic

Massageman · Answer

Cooking, music, the arts.

Limited_Edition5 · Answer

Dancing it's fun and good way to stay fit.

Iron_Man · Answer

Wrasing 🤼 🤠Gals

LC75LC71 · Answer

Ship in a bottle. The crafting process..

imemma12 · Answer

just depends on what you find attractive

V4valiant · Answer

Cooking and dancing

RavVid · Answer

dancing an gardening

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