Does anyone else think girls are super boring to talk to?

[leviopperman]

I'm chatting with randoms from Reddit and the girls are sooo boring.

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I always have to lead the conversation. Now I'm talking to a 35 year old guy. He's leading. It's a relief.

[Chazmatazz269]

It didn’t used to be that way. Before social media and internet dating, women actually had to put a little effort into dating. Now that even below average women are getting dozens of private messages daily from random strangers, they don’t try at all. If you don’t instantly pique her interest, she will give you nothing back.
She might actually be interesting. She just doesn’t offer you her best because she is immediately convinced that she can do better.

[Levin]

Well, there's something special about the male - female dynamic.

But yes, most people are completely vacuous and inane. I would say it is individual. If you can find a woman with an actual opinion, who is well-read and thoughtful. Well those girls are real dimes.

[Anonymous]

Yep. Stranger girls make almost no effort and put the onus on the other or just ignore you altogether.

Female friends are completely different. They act normal then.

[lilBigPotato]

It always takes 2 for an interesting discussion.

[Sceprent]

2 guys tho

[leviopperman]

@Sceprent haha what do you do fora living my man?

[Mark_Est]

Yeah, but that doesn't mean one of the person isn't feeling like they are talking to a rock. So your comment is just weird at best.

[lilBigPotato]

@Mark_Est of course not, but who says that the girl doesn't feel the same when talking to him? My point is, if you want to have a good conversation, it needs two people who share the same interests and passions. And you need to be able to hold a proper conversation yourself.
There's no proof that OP can do that, especially since he also didn't add any more context.
Maybe he's a good talker with many interests but the girls were all boring and stupid like a stick of bread. Or maybe he talks like a 10 year old and was only bragging about how cool he's looking in the gym and the girl was bored and rolling her eyes.
If all the girls are boring, at some point we need to look at the common factor when looking for the issue.

[Mark_Est]

And that is why he is here, asking if others have the same experience. So again, your comment is weird at best.

More towards the typical sisterhood can do no wrong crap.

The reality is that most women live dull lives. Just groom themselves and think of vacations and party. While most at least work on themselves, some things or try to build something.

That is where this view comes from, for most men.

[lilBigPotato]

@Mark_Est did you even read what I explained? About shared interests and missing context and that we don't know like this? And then you accuse me of sisterhood crap just to then get all defensive yourself and throw all women into the same stupid bucket. Funny to call my opinions weird at best when posting yourself stuff like that.

If the concept of 2 people needing to be compatible in some way is too much of a hot take for you, then there's nothing to discuss here anymore.

[Mark_Est]

Saying that i can't read while calling my "most women" as "throwing all women" is funny at hell😅

And again, the sign of sisterhood at play. Accountability is kryptonite to women, clearly. What i said was factual, most women live dull lives and thus are boring to most men who do something, learn new skills and etc.

And again, i got your point, that is why i pointed out that he came here to check if it is the case. That if he himself is the issue. Or do others experience the same thing.

[Mark_Est]

And to add about compatibility. Which is pointless to bring up, since his question isn't about that, if it is needed or real or etc.

His question is about the probability of compatible women to talk to seems low to him. The women he talks to seem boring. Does anybody else get the same outcome?

Its not a rocket science question.

[Mark_Est]

Yes, most women are bland as f. Their life is bland as f. And bland is boring to people who do things. Just reality.

[Anonymous]

I have learned that no one is boring if you have proper listening skills. Some are guarded, some may seem surface level, but ultimately it comes down to a skill check that you are probably failing

[exitseven]

sometimes I really liked having conversations with girls.

[LC75LC71]

Haha girls on Reddit are like the ones here.. Dudes! It's just that they manage to be super boring there.

[dudeinohio]

Reddit women are probably not the best specimens of females.

[Factual_person]

The worst, together with twitter women

[EmmaMary]

Randoms from Reddit... Say no more! 🙂‍↔️

[Anonymous]

Some of them. That's why you just f*** those ones and then tell them to go home.😆

[Factual_person]

The ones on reddit, absolutely!

In real life plenty of them are dumb too yes

[Abbycado]

Lol, then don’t.

[leviopperman]

but I'm bored...

[Mariogirl09]

Its because you're soooo boring

[TonyMetal___1986]

Some are and some aren't, it depends on the person

[Staximus]

You’re just talking to the wrong ones

[Anonymous]

Depends on what kind of girls.

[FrodoSkywalker007]

Some