When you met your boyfriend or girlfriend, how easy did they make it for you?

[Anonymous]

I don’t want to get ahead of myself but I’m talking to a new girl I met online and we’re in the initial stages of meeting up. She has actually been the one to ask for my contact info and suggested a date. I hope it is not a too good to be true type of situation! She’s very cute and fun to chat with so far, but I’ve been playing it cool. It just feels natural. Not trying to impress, very receptive. I really like the dynamic. I do hope regardless of what happens I’ve at least found a new friend but I am interested in more!

[Nikki1989]

It felt so natural that meeting each other seemed inevitable. My husband has so much charm and such a wicked sense of humour; it was impossible for me not to fall for him. Then we discovered we had the same passion for music, so that was the icing on the cake.

[Asker]

That’s awesome, we haven’t even talked about music yet, hopefully we can find some common ground there too

[MissSunshine2]

I always made it too easy for my partners. They made it hard for me as a result. I think, be nice, but not too nice, where they take you for granted.

[Asker]

Yeah we have a very fun way of conversing so far texting so it makes it easy to not be so agreeable actually, if that makes sense. Like an “ain’t no way” type of thing you know? 🤣

[MissSunshine2]

Ah yes, like a chat with banter?

[MissSunshine2]

Or do you mean a playing hard to get situation, where you're both faking a lack of interest?

[MissSunshine2]

Either way, keep playing it cool and get to know her, but it's wise to confess if you like her, but just say it casually.

[Asker]

Yeah but not even banter really just fun conversation. She seems interested in me and I’m interested in her, I get no sense of faking or anything. We send pics of our day back and forth. It’s fun. 🥰🥰🥰

Thank you for the advice too.

[MissSunshine2]

No worries. It sounds like things are promising for you two.

[Asker]

I hope so! She really seems great.

[MissSunshine2]

when was it that you discovered you had feelings for her? I can guarantee that I'm not her, but I like hearing such stories.

[Asker]

Well we’ve only been talking a few days, but I thought she was cute and she matched with me on a dating app. We chatted there for a couple days, shared some personal experiences, talked about family and she wanted to take the conversation off app. And we’ve just kept up.

[MissSunshine2]

congratulations :)

[Asker]

Well she seems to have asked ME on a date and now that I’ve suggested a plan, she’s pulled away… incredible.

[Asker]

Never fails. Happens every time.

[MissSunshine2]

She’s playing hard to get.