My girlfriend says I’m too clingy—should I back off at work?

[Anonymous]

Should I talk to her less at work because of this?

[LatinaXv7]

Clingy, this can mean a variety of things does she mean physically as in too much PDA or just you’re physically always around her (or both). I can sometimes feel like a person is too clingy if they don’t let me even have some alone time to decompress, nothing against my partner, but I just need some space to be myself and gather my thoughts. Sometimes it may feel like it’s a little pressuring trying to entertain your partner or constantly acknowledge them.


Maybe she doesn’t mean it because she doesn’t want you around, rather she feels like she isn’t being herself because others are also seeing that you’re both always together. Also don’t think as giving each other space is a bad thing, it will also help you learn to appreciate this moments when you are together.

[HollyK21]

I’d ask for clarification first, so that you know exactly how or why she’s feeling this way.

[Masie]

Yes, I would say so. She voiced her opinion and you risk making it awkward if you continue to smother her at work. She may be concerned of what others are thinking or getting in trouble with her boss (or both of your bosses).

This is why the place I work out doesn't allow employee relationships at all. It is strictly forbidden for a number of reasons, this being one.

[Nikki1989]

Smart people don't mess with coworkers.

[Abbycado]

Yes, just do the work you are paid for and save the other stuff for non work time.

[WhitneySnow]

Yes.

[413kim]

yes that will help