What does it feel like to crush on someone out of your league?

[Theoretical_Apulu]

It's terrible for me so far. He's just way too good. I'm so confused that he's even texting some lowly like me. He's so generous to be my friend.

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1 mo

GUYS HE TEXTED FIRSTT YESTERNIGHT!!! WE TEXTED FOR AN HOURR AND HE TOLD ME TO TEXT HIM TODAY AS WELL BUT I SAID HIM I'M SHY TO TEXT HIM FIRST SO HE SENT THIS CRYING EMOJI AND KIND OF JUST BEGGED ME TO TEXT HIM WHENEVER CONVENIENT BECAUSE HE'S KINDA FREE ALL THE TIME BUT I HAVE A BUSY SCHEDULE!!! THANKS FOR WHOEVER PRAYED FOR ME HERE

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1 mo

Yeah so I told him my feelings for him, and said that he doesn't have to worry about it because I'll just get over it. And he was very respectful the whole conversation. He said it's normal for crushes to come and go. And we're still friends. Didn't make me feel awkward. He really is a good guy.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Leagues are constructed by humans to have an excuse not to proceed or take the chance, if he's at your grasp then this is just telling you there is no league.

[Theoretical_Apulu]

He's not at my grasp. He's so talented that you can literally search him up on Google. I'm done nothing as significant as him.

[Theoretical_Apulu]

*have

[ChicoFromThe305]

Well if you glaze him like that, that's crazy work 😂

I'd say just be yourself, his status is the last thing he is focused on when he's looking for a partner, that's something you should keep in mind, men dont care about all that, mostly if they already have it themselves

[Theoretical_Apulu]

Thanks for the insight

[Jewelmyth]

Why do you see yourself as inferior? Nobody is superior. Thankfully, I've moved past that feeling. Like every human being, he defecates and eats; nobody is superior to anyone else.

[Theoretical_Apulu]

He probably shits rainbows and glitters

[Anonymous]

Leagues are nonsense. Go get him girl!

[Theoretical_Apulu]

He's like a prodigy, like sheldon but without that ego. I'm some dumb bish 😭

[bowenw]

It can feel hopeless if there is no chance of ever getting together with them. I suggest you try to find out if he is interested in you and not worry about leagues.

[Theoretical_Apulu]

I'm gonna wait for a month before doing anything

[bowenw]

That is very wise.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊
I hope things work out very well with him.

[Levin]

They're in my league, I'm just the awkwardist motherfucker when it comes to initial talking.

Anyway, your value is more about what you have done. People have value, even if it isn't currently publicly valued.

[slatyb]

How exactly is he out of your league? He's your friend, so he already likes you.

[Theoretical_Apulu]

Yeah, I'm confused why he bothered paying attention to me.

[slatyb]

I think you are selling yourself short. He likes you, and that's all the evidence you need. I think your self-image is unrealistically negative. I was the same at your age, and so was my wife. We were both quite attractive, but had no idea.

[Theoretical_Apulu]

I don't know if he actually likes me because everyone knows he's kind of a people pleaser.

[slatyb]

Texting you is a definite sign of interest. No one texts random people. He probably doesn't think he's all that. He's probably a bit shy about dating. Invite him to join you for lunch or whatever. Are you in high school?

[Theoretical_Apulu]

We all just passed high school. He's waiting for his college decisions and I'm currently in a drop year to prepare for this very intense engineering entrance test.

[slatyb]

So invite him to coffee or lunch or whatever.

[Theoretical_Apulu]

He's currently in another state.

[MrChinaski]

Fuck that. Your goal is to marry someone "out of your league". Believe in yourself.

[Theoretical_Apulu]

Okayyy

[MrChinaski]

(sorry, language warning)

[Theoretical_Apulu]

Perks of being an adult, no censor for me!

[queenofcardio]

I never think of myself in that way..

[Theoretical_Apulu]

Maam, YOU'RE THE ONE WHO'S OUT OF EVERYONE'S LEAGUE.

[queenofcardio]

Lol thanks. You are too 😊

[Staximus]

Stop talking about yourself like that, little Lulu. Obviously you’re more amazing to him than you are to yourself

[Anonymous]

Well at least you don't have low self estemm.🙃😆

[Theoretical_Apulu]

What is that supposed to mean

[Still-alive]

Agreed with anon girl. Go get him! Lol 😂

[Theoretical_Apulu]

I wish 😂😂

[Still-alive]

Just like going shopping. Go to the store and get him. Put a down payment on him if you gotta lol.

Jk

This is gonna be one of those moments where you’ll kick yourself for not making a move ill bet. I say go for it!

[Theoretical_Apulu]

I'll see what happens. We just started seriously becoming friends yesterday. I'm gonna let this thing marinate for a month

[Nikki1989]

There are NO leagues.

[Anonymous]

Why do you feel they are out of your league

[Opinion Owner]

What do u mean he shits rainbows

[Anonymous]

It sucks. You start getting anxiety.

[Pterodon]

I don’t believe in leagues