Is it wrong to start dating again when my situationship just ended?

[kitty_404]

Guys my situationship ended after 3 months and i was overly attached to him whenever there was no contact i used to make an effort to break no contact he never planned any dates, never met me but still i was attached to him over texts. Since he was not planning anything i felt the connection was meaningless and decided to talk about it he gave up on me, saying i want to focus on my career (he said he wanted me geniunely, in the same month) i did try to talk but he never responded i see him follwing new girls and iam back on that dating app again i feel kinda embarrassed what if he finds me on that app! Or he gets to know (by the way after we stopped talking he has been following many girls) i feel like im being too desperate i have two ideas in my mind i shall wait and not meet someone new untill and unless i completely forget about him and i should explore more rather than being stuck, we never even met after all and find someone better

[Anonymous]

Ladies, please understand. “Situationship” is basically the same as men being friend zoned. The difference is when a man is friend zoned he almost never gets to have sex w her. Situationship are the same, but in this situation the man gets sex w out habit to commit to her. A majority of Situationships are basically FWBs. But the term situationship is much more softer to women, more accepting to women. It gives them hope that it could lead to a relationships when most likely it’s not. Women come up w words to soften the blow of what things really are. He never intended to be w you. The men will tell you that because they know that’s what you want to hear. So how do we keep you around to continue to have sex w you? By buttering you up.

[Alex-Snow]

Kitty he sounds like he was not really into it. Did you ever meet IRL with him? It is ok to stay on the same dating app. Who cares if he sees it. It is your life after all. I'm near your age and can see how it could have been frustrating if he did not take the initiative. Message me if you want to chat about it.

[kitty_404]

Thankyou alex for the advice❤️

[Alex-Snow]

Anytime... hang in there and stay in touch if u want :)

[Nikki1989]

Of course not.

[slatyb]

Date whenever you feel like it. There's no waiting period after the end of a relationship.

[jahaims]

If you participate in a situationship you aren't mature enough to date in a healthy way

[Anonymous]

Find someome better? Sure go on

[Anonymous]

Not at all. If you are ready, start dating.

[wkhan_87]

Nothing wrong

[dudeinohio]

Go ahead and date

[MasterKS]

yes get a new one.