Why do couples grow apart instead of trying to reignite the spark?

[Anonymous]

I think these couples just gave up on their relationship cuz they realized it's not worth saving. I believe that if two people truly valued their relationship and wanted things to work... they will try to re ignite that spark even after growing apart.

[Alex-Snow]

You make a good point. I think that it is worth a try to keep the spark going unless there was something significant like cheating or something. Has this happened to you?

[OneViewpoint]

Because it's hard to unsee reality when it's been staring you in the face for years. They don't want to save it. They want out.

[Asker]

so true...

[Nikki1989]

People are becoming increasingly lazy as time passes.

[Asker]

You can change If you actually want the relationship

[Abbycado]

Because that’s what happens to some. You get tired.

[Asker]

You only get tired If you didn't actually want the other person as much anymore.

[Anonymous]

Maybe they exhausted all their options. This scenario is why I want someone I'm crazy for.

[Asker]

that craziness might fade over time.

[Opinion Owner]

Or it might be unconditional.

[Asker]

I would warn against having such high hopes and expectations when it comes to love.

[Opinion Owner]

Trust me, I know.

[jahaims]

They aren't mature enough to navigate a relationship in a healthy manner

[Anonymous]

They often try. Sometimes you just can't.