Many times they break up and get back together. Number one reason most of the time is the 2 of them have mind blowing orgasmic sex. I know you may not want 2 believe that's the reason. Any couple that's honest they will tell you the sex is the main reason.
They don't know what they want, but still have feelings for each other.
They don’t know how to handle their emotions right. If it didn’t work out the first time it isn’t gonna work the 12th either
Because they're stupid , insecure and lonely
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u Repetition compulsion and love for drama!
I can see emotional dependency in action in those cases. My experience was with an LDR, none of us really wanted to break up, however, we never manage to go beyond a screen, so it was necessary to end things and continue our life. We stayed as friends, or at least we are trying. Is what I wanted in the first place, I was a skeptic the first time I knew she was seeking for something serious, then my optimism said "give it a try", and I gave it a try and learned many things I wouldn't have learned, valuable things.
My reason for doing this with my ex was for the sex. I was insecure in my 20s and when we broke up we still loved each other. So I would use those feelings to have sex with her over and over again; just like she used my feelings for sex and companionship. It was a toxic on again off again relationship for 14 years but to bluntly answer your question it was sex.
Distance. It acts like a fuel in the relationship when used carefully. Imagine you seeing again your childhood friend who'd moved out three years back. Now multiply your emotions w 10, how do you feel? Emotional whirlwind?
I think that method works fine for some. One of my closest friend prefers that. She says and I quote "time and distance gives time for introspection, rather than indulging in bullshit you start thinking how to make it work, what your partner wants, are you the selfish one in the relationship etc etc... but it works fine for me, all of us need time on our own to plan our efforts for better outcome."
Because they love each other? You can love someone and noy have matching personalities or there can be other issues that don't depends on them. If you don't understand it then your relationship is not based on love. If you love someone you try to make it work.
So they can be selfish and get their way then come back when it's convienent for them they dont really know what they want and that type of relationship probably won't last it's just a matter. of time until 1 of them finds someone they really love cuz if they actually loved each other they would be breaking up
Because they think coming in and out and in again is called a "relationship"; and because they think having an uncommitted relationship outside marriage is a "relationship".
Guilty of that and speaking from experience... petty break up reasons, attached to each other, the feeling of hope that “we’re gonna change and make better”, I’m gonna be lonely 😩, and it’s hard to actually move on
I generally think it's sex and life issues that hold them sometimes. For some people they don't anyone else to go to and they've invested so many years/time into this one person it seems too much to start again.
They just make impulse decisions without actually considering consequences.
Because they truly believe in each other and have passion burning in them..
And fall in love over and over again with the same person
Because some people suck at making decisions and sticking with them.
Fear. Easier to retreat into comfort than it is to forge boldly ahead into the unknown.
Most likely two stubborn donkeys with something foolish or denial that they have feelings but the other one doesn't fit in to some ideological frame that is created in their mind.
I don't know. They seem convinced they should get more chances.
Agreed I just dont know why they torture themselves. They are called ex for a reason.
It’s all they know/best they got at the moment.
Some people get turned on from fights and trial separations.
Cuz they are stupid. You break up once and that should be it
They cannot live with each other but cannot do with out them...
Because the shagging is sooo gooooood... They can't live without it.
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