If the relationship didn’t work the first time, it probably won’t work the 2nd,4th, or 6th time. If the two really loved each other, they would try to make it work before the break up would even come to the conclusion. Why do some couples break up multiple times and get back together?
Why do some couples break up multiple times and get back together?
Many times they break up and get back together. Number one reason most of the time is the 2 of them have mind blowing orgasmic sex. I know you may not want 2 believe that's the reason. Any couple that's honest they will tell you the sex is the main reason.
I completely agree. I also feel like even if they get back after weeks or months later, the relationship won’t be the same and some feelings won’t be entirely there.
I can see emotional dependency in action in those cases. My experience was with an LDR, none of us really wanted to break up, however, we never manage to go beyond a screen, so it was necessary to end things and continue our life. We stayed as friends, or at least we are trying. Is what I wanted in the first place, I was a skeptic the first time I knew she was seeking for something serious, then my optimism said "give it a try", and I gave it a try and learned many things I wouldn't have learned, valuable things.
Hmm, yeah, I mean, there should be trust overall, without trust an LDR doesn't make any sense. Although is the case, is tough to know what is exactly going on in that person's life, and how she/he is responding to it. That's why LDR have to end the soonest as possible. Is like playing the Russian roulette, you take a 50/50 chance.
The online world is real life also if it has an important impact in your everyday life, is real enough.
Now, obviously, you shouldn't care for someone who is not even interested in you, or who don't show that much interest (in offline and online relationships). I've learned that is better to maintain yourself indifferent with that person, and don't be the one making the first move (if you already show all your interest to keep a close relationship and not much happened).
All close relationships only work if there is a mutual interest in making it work. You're right in something, you can't force things, therefore "waste time" in someone shouldn't be made of a pessimistic assumption, I think you gotta firstly know if you want to be with that person, and have a realist view of how your relationship dynamics with that person really is.
I’m not saying that having online isn’t real life. I’m just saying that you never fully know someone’s intentions. If you never met the person before, you may even re-consider the relationship.
People are not always the same way online and text as they are in real life. If a person is serious about u, they would make anything work for the 2 of you to be together! Especially in a long distance relationship type of thing! But like I mentioned before, when I tried one, I wasted all my time. It wasn’t worth it and it sucked.
My reason for doing this with my ex was for the sex. I was insecure in my 20s and when we broke up we still loved each other. So I would use those feelings to have sex with her over and over again; just like she used my feelings for sex and companionship. It was a toxic on again off again relationship for 14 years but to bluntly answer your question it was sex.
Distance. It acts like a fuel in the relationship when used carefully. Imagine you seeing again your childhood friend who'd moved out three years back. Now multiply your emotions w 10, how do you feel? Emotional whirlwind?
I think that method works fine for some. One of my closest friend prefers that. She says and I quote "time and distance gives time for introspection, rather than indulging in bullshit you start thinking how to make it work, what your partner wants, are you the selfish one in the relationship etc etc... but it works fine for me, all of us need time on our own to plan our efforts for better outcome."
Because they love each other? You can love someone and noy have matching personalities or there can be other issues that don't depends on them. If you don't understand it then your relationship is not based on love. If you love someone you try to make it work.
Okay yes that’s very much might be true that they love each other but just because you have love for someone doesn’t mean you have to be with them. Not every would you love deserves a spot in your life.
Of course you can try to fix the relationship but if it clearly isn’t working after the 5th attempt, that should tell you something. You two are not compatible mates. You can only try so much for a person.
So they can be selfish and get their way then come back when it's convienent for them they dont really know what they want and that type of relationship probably won't last it's just a matter. of time until 1 of them finds someone they really love cuz if they actually loved each other they would be breaking up
Because they think coming in and out and in again is called a "relationship"; and because they think having an uncommitted relationship outside marriage is a "relationship".
Guilty of that and speaking from experience... petty break up reasons, attached to each other, the feeling of hope that “we’re gonna change and make better”, I’m gonna be lonely 😩, and it’s hard to actually move on
I generally think it's sex and life issues that hold them sometimes. For some people they don't anyone else to go to and they've invested so many years/time into this one person it seems too much to start again.
Most likely two stubborn donkeys with something foolish or denial that they have feelings but the other one doesn't fit in to some ideological frame that is created in their mind.
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