Me and this guy have only been a couple for a week or so. I knew I messed up when I found out he had multiple kids and six baby moms. He started to quickly flaunt me on social media and was quick to video record us doing everything. So I felt special and magically forgot about all his baby moms and kids. In two days, he has posted himself kissing my feet, me licking his face (playful, flirty kind of way) and a picture I took of him caressing my feet while he was on his phone. He has even posted a picture of me that I posted on my social media a year or so ago. I suppose he admired how pretty I looked in the picture. Each picture/video he posted had some kind of hood love song connected to it. So, I felt admired but deep down I knew something wasn’t right. He ended up throwing my phone and cracking it up after we got into a disagreement and even recorded a video of me reacting to the broke phone and I was pretty much laughing about it to keep from crying. I was making a joke out of it but I don’t believe this is truly what love is. It seems more obsessive and controlling more than anything plus he has all these kids and baby moms. The youngest child is one and my biggest question is, why is he so focused on me, flaunting me and showering me with “love” when he has all these kids? But at the same time, he has to feel something toward me because why all the constant affection, admiration and attention?
If a guy does something like this early on in the relationship, would you leave? Or would you think that’s just how he “loves”?
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If he has multiple kids and 6 baby moms, RUN LIKE THE WIND. He clearly has major problems.
That’s what I thought when he told me but then he started giving me all the attention any girl can ever ask for in person and on social media. He was treating me as though I’m the girl of his dreams and I can’t explain it, but it captured me for some reason. As though he came storming with so much love.
Well it is your life and I don't mean to tell you what to do. But I would advise to avoid him at all costs in order to avoid being baby mom number 7. He is likely a sociopath. Sociopaths tend to be charming people because that is how they find their prey.
I think you can do better
Narcissist to the T