Dating
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He hasn’t texted since our great date—does that mean he’s not interested?

So I first met this guy on tinder like a year or two ago and we went out on a date at the movies. After that, we didn’t really go anywhere romantically. He would occasionally reach out or slide into my DMs, but at the time I wasn’t that interested and would sometimes brush him off.

Recently he reached out again and asked me to go bowling. I agreed, and we went out this past Tuesday. The date actually went really well. We talked a lot, joked around, were playfully competitive, and he complimented me a couple of times. After the date he texted me and said he had a good time and told me to drive safe.

He initiated a conversation the day after our date. We were talking about me going on vacation soon, and his last message was basically “oh shoot, that sounds fun.” I just reacted to the message because there wasn’t really much for me to respond to. Didn’t hear from him the next day (Thursday) nor did I reach out to him.

Yesterday I decided to reach out to him myself and texted him. We had a conversation, but now I’m wondering about the fact that he hasn’t really initiated anything since the day after our date. I don’t expect someone to text me constantly, especially this early, but I also don’t want to be the one keeping things going if he’s not that interested.

Would you assume his interest has faded, or am I reading too much into who initiates? Since I reached out yesterday, should I just leave it alone now and see if he contacts me next?

He hasn’t texted since our great date—does that mean he’s not interested?
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