He didn't send me a good morning text is he losing interest?

[Anonymous]

After a month- every day- he sent me a good morning text. Yes, once or twice I send them to him. But the past two days I sent them. Then last night I told him to sned a pic to keep our snapchat streak going and he didn't... He didn't send a good morning text this morning or a snap so the streak is gone... But his snapchat score went up and he's been on facebook so I know he's up and alive... I'm starting to think the worst.

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[UglyestGuyEver]

well if u only replied to him once or twice in 30 days... what do u thinks gonna happen?
u say he's losing intrest for not replying... but u only replied once or twice in 30 days... thats showing mega unintrest... he's jus giving you a taste of ur own medicine... or giving up on u... if u only sent 2 messages in a month he probably thinks u have no intrest in him at all so he's giving up so he doesn't waste his time... he's probably looking for other girl who shows clear intrest in him

[Asker]

I reply to him every time. I meant I send him good morning once or twice. He knows I am interested.

[UglyestGuyEver]

oh, does you only reply to his messages and never give him something more?
if u only reply and nothing else that can also make him think ur not intrested in him,

try to start a convo and see if he makes an effort to talk to you... if he does... he's still intrested... if he doesn't really bother and jus short replies... he's lost intrest

[Asker]

no like we talk about everything. I met his friends this past weekend on our date. but like he's just been short the past two days. I have made an effort. I even made the comment that I want to be official with him to which he said "hahaha we will be soon" but thats where today he hasn't said anything...

[UglyestGuyEver]

ask him urself... ask why he is only replying in short replies now... and also ask if he's lost intrest... it won't hurt to try

[Asker]

I asked him if everything was okay and he said stop overthinking hahaha but how can I not overthink? Thank you for not being rude and genuinely listening to me. It's better than going crazy on him. haha. I also told him that I wanted more than sex and if he wanted a reason out, then here it is- he said "if I wanted an out, I would say so" …. im just going to give him his space today- if he wants to talk cool, but I dont know. Maybe it's not me. I just truly hope it's not someone else. that is always my biggest fear- I've been cheated on a lot in my past because im too trusting/loyal

[UglyestGuyEver]

when u ask if everythings ok he probably jus thinks u mean to ask him if he's in a good mood or nothing bads happened,

ask him specifiically "why u only replying with short replies to me now, have u lost intrest"?

that should solve ur problem... he maybe jus can't be bothered to put a lot of thought into his replies anymore... doesn't mean he lost inrest in u... he probably jus got lazy

[spartan55]

You are really 30 years old sweatin stupid Snapchat streaks. If you are really worried call him.

[Asker]

it was the principle of it hahaha. like I jokingly said dont let our streak go and he said I won't. i'll send ya something later... doesn't... but yet his score goes up? hmmm, weird to me.

[spartan55]

So all of this leads you to believe your relationship is over?

[Asker]

You seem blunt and straight-forward- I need that! So, yes, I am overthinking and that leads me to think it's over- he hasn't messaged me all morning. which is weird for him. Can you please help me to stop overanalyzing because my mind is literally thinking he has someone else. It's a past heartbreak issue.

[spartan55]

Like I said, just call him if you are in a panic.