Wrong to be upset about another girl texting my boyfriend good morning?

[Anonymous]

Recently my boyfriend stayed over at my house after not seeing each other for a week and a half (busy schedules - another problem). In the morning having been up about a half hour still in bed, he was checking his phone (didn't mind that) and sent a text. I asked who it was and he said the name of a girl that has recently started at his work. I asked what he said and he said she said good morning and that he said it back. This bothered me. Over the short time she has work where my boyfriend does (a couple of months) they have become "close friends", text constantly, and he talks about her every time we are together (which isn't often). I felt those texts were inappropriate, they are both in relationships (hers almost just ended) and shouldn't be sending texts like that. She should be texting her own boyfriend good morning, not mine. The bigger part of the issue is that my boyfriend didn't see anything wrong with it and didn't respect my view and feelings about it at all.

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[147703]

im a pretty over paranoid gilfriend.. and I would bother me, but then again I text my freinds good morning sometimes.. if its an ongoing thing.. I might be a little wierded out.. but.. I know that if I'm bored and its early.. il text who ever I can find :P so.. maybe if her boyfriends kinda falling out with her she's trying to distract herself (could be completely innocent) but maybe mention it too him just alittle that it made you feel uncomfortable.. ask him if he ever gets a flirtaticious vibe from her? tell him to be honest.. hopefully he will be, goood luck :)

[thatbecray]

she knows what she's doing. she's after him.
if my guy did that his ass would be kicked into next century because thats out of line

[georgemex]

I couldn't agree with you more! I always tell my wife, it's not that I don't trust, it's the other guys! Those people always find a stupid excuse to get closer to someone, and make your couple see it as a harmless and friendly approach, but it is often not. Do you want to give it a try? Text your brother or sister or someone close when you're with him, if he asks who you're texting, say something like "oh it's just I new guy at work, poor thing, he's been fighting a lot with his girlfriend lately and he's asked for some advice", let's see how he feels about it.

[whitewolf]

i get that, you feel a little suspicious about her intentions and her feeling for your boyfriend, as for being upset it depends, I can understand if your upset because you wanna be the first person your boyfriend talks to in the morning not her but if I its just because he doesn't share your point of view about the whole thing then no not really

[Anonymous]

let him know your feelings. don't yell at him just communicate.

[Anonymous]

That would p*ss me off. I'm sure some will say it's nothing until it happens to them.