My girlfriend texts other guys. Don't I have a right to be upset?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend texts other guys and I have told her to stop but she keeps doing it should I just dump her (I'm using my friend's account)

[Anonymous]

In any relationship I'm sure the girl has friends that are guys as well as the guy has friends that are girls. You can't really tell her not to have friends that are guys because that would mean your controlling her.If she still talks to an ex than you can tell her that it bothers you and you would like some respect.And you should talk to her about not texting them when you guys are together and spending time with each other. But in general she is gonna have guy friends. Just like I'm sure you have friends that are girls and probably have some of their numbers. If it really bothers you that much and you do find evidence that she's cheating then go ahead and dump her,its up to you.

[Anonymous]

she uses your account to contact other guys? what does she text them? I don't understand why she would need to do that. But if it's just for friendship I don't think it merits a dumping but ask/ demand her to use her own account ot contact them in a different way but if its for more than that then yeah dump her, it sounds like she isn't really into you if she is trying to get more hook ups nor does it sound like you have a particularly connection to her either. Just cut your loss. It is a weird thing to do, she doesn't seem reliable or trustworthy

[Asker]

I'm using my friend's account who is a member on here my girlfriend doesn't have an account on here

[Opinion Owner]

oh okay, well what I said still stands it depends on what her relationship with these other guys are or how serious the two of you are, but it could also be insecurities on your part. You'll just have to talk to her and go from there

[electromagnetic]

Why would you dump her? If she flirting and trying to get into the guys pants or is she just being a friend?

The last thing you want to do is dump your girlfriend because she is texting guys. You have to have a logical explanation and reasoning unless you don't like her anymore.

[Anonymous]

Why? Because texting other guys is forbidden as far as you're concerned? Or is the content of the texts what upsets you?

[Asker]

I consider that cheating

[Opinion Owner]

Then you're a fool.

[gweniffer801]

its one thing if she is flirting with other guys and you ask her to stop or tell her that is bothers you. but you don't "tell her" she is allowed to have friends that are guys. you don't own her dude.

sounds like you have the issue here.

[Lett0385]

If you already talked to her, and she continues to do, yes next time you see her txting another guys, dumb her, she is not respecting the fact that it bothers you when she texts other guys, plus WHAT IS SHE DOING TXTING OTHER GUYS SHE SHOULD BE EXCLUSIVE TO YOU RIGHT?

[UberTroll]

So if you're bisexual you should just cut off contact with the whole world then? There's nothing wrong with just talking to the opposite gender.

[Lett0385]

no, I believe that if your in a serious relationship, yes you can have friends (guys, girls,and so on) and yes is OK to receive a text from a friend and replay to it, but in my opinion it doesn't look good to be constantly txting other guys. I think that she should be more exclusive and respect the fact that she has a BF.

[rudy37lee]

You can't tell anyone what to do. Are these guys she has dated? Just friends? I can understand why you don't want her all chummy with an ex, but if she has not given you a reason to think she has an alterior motive than just chatting, let it go.

[May31]

Not really...how would you feel if she told you to stop texting your girl friends? It's not really a big deal unless she's flirting with them. I don't see how that's cheating anyway, it's just a talk, not a kiss or sex or anything like that. Be cool!

[snowangle]

If it bothers you then feel free to dump her, good luck finding a girl who doesn't talk to guys though. It's not fair to ask her to stop speaking to her friends simply because they're male.

[TornApart]

Sit down with her and find out if she is just friendly with her guys friends. I texted guy friends in a relationship and my ex never got jealous. It's communication

[slipslender]

so she isn't allowed to interact with guys anymore since she's got you? that doesn't seem fair.

[Asker]

Texting other guys besides me is cheating

[slipslender]

i want you to be my brother.

[Asker]

What do you mean by that

[slipslender]

BROTHER!

[britannny]

Well, if she's just talking to them, she's not doing anything wrong, and you're being a baby.

[PoeticNinja]

Wow, if anything she has the right to be upset and break up with you for trying to be controlling.

[Nicefuture]

Stop texting girls first.

[Nicefuture]

And by this attitude,you are just putting in her mind the idea of cheating on you,you are making her think about flirting with guys and cheat for real,it is like you are asking her to cheat on you,don't means do