Girls when should guys know to stop texting a girl because they might be getting annoyed?

[chris573]

I started texting this girl I have a tiny crush on over this summer because I can't see her and won't be able to for like another month because we're home from school. She's a friend of mine and is pretty shy girl. I could tell she was into me during they school year by the way she acted around me and had plenty of people telling me to get at her. I never did because of a very good reason I have. Anyways I've been texting her a couple of times a week sometimes saying nice things to her and she always replies and seemed happy and enjoying me texting her. We were supposed to meet up at a concert we were both at but we ended up not because when I got there she didn't reply back to me. I texted her a couple more times and called her and got no response until the end of the show and she said she was sorry that she was busy with a drunk friend. I was really wasted myself which is why I texted her so much and I'm really embarassed for doing that because I never text or call someone multiple texts in a row. The next day i texted her saying sorry if I bothered her and everything seemed to be all good. We joked around a little bit about it and then she said she was at work and busy and she'll talk to me later. I texted her good morning the day after that and then two days after that text I texted her saying hey whats up and got no response from her either time. She is kinda a busy person but she usually always replies to me. That was the most I had texted her in a few day span so I feel like I could have possibly annoyed her or something maybe. I haven't texted her in two weeks now because I don't know if I should and I don't want to bother her more if I already did and I really don't want things to be awkward between us because we are friends. I don't know what to do so girls should I text her again or should I not because I may have annoyed her? Also she's the type of girl that never texts guys first so please don't say wait for her to text me

[lullah]

You don't like me saying this.. but
YOU NEED TO WAIT FOR HER TO TEXT YOU, really.

You got to relax and remove your mind from her a bit. Don't worry, she won't be disappearing or what.. you need time for yourself too. Her actions to you are indirectly saying "Leave me alone, you are suffocating me." She can't say it directly to you because she doesn't wanna hurt your feelings.

If a girl likes you, she will reply to your texts.. no matter how busy she is. And if she's madly into you, she will reply in a sec. If she doesn't text you back or forgot that you have a date or what.. she's clearly not into you now. And the only way that she'll be into you again is to be your old self -- just like during your school year. You might probably be not texting her that much before or not asking her for a date or ignoring her. I guess she likes that more than you giving your self to her too much to her.

Just change your attitude towards her. Don't text her anything.. even a friendly quote won't do. You need to wait for her patiently to text you FIRST. And when that time comes, don't blast her with replies because she doesn't like that.

[leagueoflosers]

Honestly, if she's not the type to text a guy first or whatever then how would you know if she's interested if she doesn't initiate? I think it's kind of dumb when people have that sort of mentality =\ But if you really like her, I say that you should just text her and ask what's up or something and see how she responds to it. If you like the vibe you're getting from her, then keep texting her and don't think too much about it. If the conversation is good, it will keep going. (I was talking to a guy for a bit and we texted all day everyday because we never stopped running out of things to talk about.) If she doesn't reply or you're not into her tone or whatever, just stop texting her and try to move on. It's all about vibes. Trust your instinct, listen to your heart. (:

[Anonymous]

if she is not responding back quickly, is not super happy or horny, then back off... come back when you both have the energy, don't let convos drag on and on.

[lavarule]

Flirty little texts are annoying with someone you don't have a relationship with. They are weak and needy.

If you want to see her, text her and ask her to see you. If she ignores you or says no or blows you off, just move on with your life and leave her alone.