Is it bad that she didn't send me a good night text?

[Anonymous]

So I'm talking to this girl practically daily (I don't know how serious we are, or if we're just friends) and I would send her a good morning text and we would talk a bit throughout the day and then she'll text me good night. So the day before yesterday she said good night and I said the same, then I woke up to another good night text from her and I felt bad for not replying to that. Then yesterday I apologized to her and said good morning, she ignored the good morning and just said "it's ok". We FaceTime for like 20 minutes, we were going to do something, but it was kind of hard so we decided to just do it in person so we just chatted for a bit then said good bye. I stood up a bit late just in case she sent me a good night text, but I never got one and I don't know if I should be worried about that? Cause whenever something happens I look it up and it says that she's lost interest in me so then I start to panic. So should I stop texting her good morning everyday? I was thinking of not texting her today until she texts me first? Also, if I stop texting good morning is she going to stop texting good night? Or should I text her good night sometimes, some people say that good night texts are sweet, but good morning texts can be annoying?

[devilish-cutie]

no, it really doesn't have to mean something bad. She may also overthink as you. My advice is to just do you and act like you meaning if you want to send good morning text send it etc. Dont alter your behavior towards hers so much. You do what you think is right and acceptable. Its also better to ask then assume something is wrong. You can say: oh i miss your good night texts and then some emoji or you can even write asking is something wrong for her not sending you any good night texsts. You know dont play games and dont be afraid to ask and show you care.

[Asker]

So should I text her good night first, and can I talk to her about this next time we're together? I'm a bit concerned to do that because there was a brief period where we stopped talking and that was because I was texting her too much and I kept asking her if she was annoyed by it. Also, what are some ways I can know she's interested in me? She's giving me mixed signals and I even asked her out on a date which she said yes to, but she isn't interested in a relationship right now because she's too busy (school, her son, and work). But there are moments where we're together and we just look at each other and smile, or whenever we laugh at something we always look at each other even if there's other people talking to us, and she was showing me her hair because she got a haircut (this might be normal behavior, I don't know). What bothers me is that before we stopped texting she talked about us maybe being more than friends, this was last semester so she wasn't as busy and stressed but she may have lost interest in me, which she's slowly regaining? I know that she's not looking for a relationship, I just want to see if she's interested and eventually we can talk about dating (exclusively) which is apparently different than a relationship?
I'm sorry I know that this is a lot of information to leave out, but I'm having a really hard time reading her

[devilish-cutie]

Huh sounds like a mess to me. If she told you she is not for a relationship you should take it at that. Its wrong of her to lead you on. I dont see this working out for you honestly. Dont put your all eggs in one basket. Id try to meet other women. This one isn't reqlly ready to date.

[Asker]

What makes you think she's leading me on? What I'm confused about is last semester she talked about not just staying friends, but this semester she said she's too busy and she used the words "right now" when telling me she's not interested in a relationship. Is it possible that she really does like me and she's just confused or too shy or something, or she might have lost interest in me and is slowly getting it back? I really don't think she would lead me on because she doesn't seem like that kind of girl, but I guess that's what all the guys say. Also, I took a look at our conversations the past few days and it looks like I send the first text, but throughout the rest of the day it's mainly her starting the conversation so that might mean she likes talking to me, right?

[Asker]

Another thing, is there a way I can just ask her? I want to ask her in a way that I don't risk losing our friendship. Like next time we're together alone and in a good mood should I bring it up somehow, just be like "you know how you said you aren't interested in a relationship? Then what is exactly that you're looking for?" but say it more passive?

[Twalli]

I rarely text my girlfriend either, but she doesn't seem to mind
Granted we're dating, so it's different