OK so despite my age, I was in two long-term relationships and they were horrible. The first one was very abusive by man that was 10 years older than me and the second one wasn’t physically abusive but mentally. I didn’t want to be in another relationship so I’ve been casually seeing this man for 3 1/2 years. we started off just hooking up twice a month to have sex. Starting in June of this year he started texting me more. tell him me good morning almost every day or at least checking on me midday. And August I had a pretty bad car wreck. I only had bruising, but the car was smashed. he took me and help me get my old car running, and he took me to the junkyard to get all of my expensive stuff out of my smashed car. I didn’t ask he offered for the first time since we’ve been seeing each other to do something for me. Yesterday morning he sent a good morning text and then and last night, he sent me a picture of what he’s working on in his house because he knows how to fix just about anything. he said hey, then I said hey back then he sent me the picture and said I miss you look what I’m working on then he was explaining to me what he’s doing. it was a picture of a wall. He tore out and put some wood and pipes in where he’s making an area for a laundry room. I feel like he’s starting to have feelings for me, but I don’t wanna get my hopes up and I don’t want to ask him and ruin anything.
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I'm sorry for your past experiences. That does not seem like the kind of man to be abusive/ controlling.
Since you said you casually hookup 2 times a month for the past 3 1/2 years. I can say he knows he can have sex with you. He wouldn't put in the extra effort and selflessness you described, unless he did care about you. I can't 100% guarantee this random guys intentions, he could just be texting you to try to get some more visits.
But if he goes out of his way to check in on you, and help you without expecting anything in return, I believe that says he cares for you.