Why are some men so disgusting?

[Anonymous]

why do some men say the most disturbing and nasty things to girls? They will say the most inappropriate things randomly.. do they think that thats what girls want? They obviously lack some sort of social skills or common sense, but why do some guys think that a okay or a normal thing to do? especially to random women on the internet? Ex. this guy sent me this "my dick is very long". First of all wtf? and second off all, why would that guy think that was an okay thing to write to a random woman de doesn't know? And one guy wrote "wanna fuck". I have talked to him once two years ago, i had not answered any of his messages since then and for some reason he thinks its okay to write to me (apparently he was married) and ask me if i want to fuck him. Especially since he's not attractive at all. Talking about being delusional. Anyway. anyone that can give some view on this? do the guys that do this think that the women want them to do this? Or do they want to be disgusting on purpose?

[Just_the_Usual]

I think you've heard this statement before, but there's two types of guys: guys who think with their stomach and guys who think with their dick. The "stomach" guy is the one who's gonna sit there with a smile on the face while he waits for you to cook him dinner, while the other... well, just wanna get down in business. The second type exists because these guys grow up in environments lacking any actual interaction with the other gender (example: football team, all dudes). Often they consider themselves the apex predator, the top of the food chain or whatever term similar... They don't talk to women, they FLIRT with them and think most women are just looking for a good dick to land on. They also think that in relationships, they're the givers and women are the receivers, and when things don't work out, it's the receivers who aren't satisfied, not due to the givers' shortcomings (no pun intended). Their brains practically function like that of an animal, simple instinct to show off their "stuff" for females to behold.

[AleDeEurope]

If a man receives a picture of a naked woman, or she sends him a message saying "wanna fuck?", most men will feel aroused by this, so those who have low social skill, or little knowledge about women, will think that this is what women want, that women will also feel aroused by this type of stuff, but in most of the cases, it's not what happens.
Those are the type of men that wouldn't talk to a woman in person, or those who probably are misogynists, so they use the Internet as they don't have to show their faces and feel no embarrassment.

Don't think this is done by every men, because that's not true, it's just a small amount of them actually, but most of them are here in the Internet.

[Asker]

hmm make sense... by the way i wrote SOME men not ALL men, i know not all men act like this ;)

[AleDeEurope]

Yes I saw that, I just wanted to emphasize it :)

[jeremy20]

First, I don't condone any disgusting comments made by men toward women, or visa versa. It's rude and creates stereotypes not all men deserve. Why they do it? They seek physical and emotional attention, or they're psychological lyrics damaged.

That being said, perhaps I'm the only one whose caught this. "Especially since he wasn't attractive at all"... that to me suggests you think it would be a little less disgusting if he was good looking. Interesting.

[Asker]

no it wouldn't... i have talked to attractive males online, and at first they where acting normal and nice, but out of the blue they would write inappropriately things. That resulted to me blocking them. So it wouldn't be more disgusting if an unattractive guy did it, but i would maybe be more surprised if an attractive guys did it, if it makes sense lol

[jeremy20]

Attractive men are less likely to make such comments, because they can get attention from women without saying such things. The less attractive however, or the older men, have went through life with much less attention and resort to any means necessary to achieve it.

[PlainOldAdam]

Difficult to say, since I've never said something that dumb to a woman, but I'll guess that it's a substitute for confidence.

Women always say that confidence is the number one thing they want, and from the time we're young boys all we see is women dating the worst type of asshole they can find, so we try to be as upfront and "confident" as possible.

Just a theory.

[TheRavenborne]

They are social outcasts. Simple as that. Don't pay them any attention and don't stress about it, just block them. They are not worth your time or worry. They will probably be just as disgusting when they say things to men, and not have any friends.

[Asker]

i guess you're right... its not like im very bothered about them, but i really dont understand whats their problem or why they act like idiots lol

[TheRavenborne]

That's like asking, why do big cats hunt and eat other animals, or why do ravens outsmart other creatures, or, why do wolves live in packs. It's in their nature. It's in the nature of an antisocial outcast to act inappropriately and wind up alone.

[kheserthorpe]

A guy i knew had a friend who on some dating site managed to send like 400 women a question asking if tey wanted to fuck in a day, before they turned off his ability to send messages.

He got about 8 yes. Legitimate ones.

[Asker]

good for him... but that doesn't answer my questione...

[kheserthorpe]

Actually it does.

In a few hours he had 8 women lined up ready to have sex.

Being blatantly sexual to as many women as possible results in massive numbers of rejections and a low success rate - but it also results in more success then almost any other way of interaction with women.

[meatballs21]

This is basically the correct answer. Attrition. I've seen it myself. You have to have a thick skin to be one of these guys but look at his results.

[Averageguy924]

For every disgusting man there is just as many disgusting women like that. you have standards not everyone does though.. Personally i like to charm a woman and be polite. but there's females i spoke with that wanted that kind of talk. Goodluck :)

[Asker]

so its has something to do with those kind of men dont have any standars?

[Averageguy924]

Well some men think that's what a girl wants to hear and many do! Shit if i had of changed hey hows you today fancy doing something together? to I'm going to pound the fuck out of you with my big dick today? it would of happened i dont want a slut though so im sticking to my game!

[Anonymous]

Because some women lie and manipulate us and are stupid enough to think that we can't see through their BS. They resort to crying when they start losing an argument or at least shaming and intellectual dishonesty. On top of that some women feel entitled and make men do all the work. Let's not forget feminism!

Eventually, the resentment exceeds a power level of 9000! *breaks scouter*

[Asker]

ftw are you talking about? what does that have to do with men writing appropriate messages to random women online? And how is this womens fault that some men can't think normally?

[Opinion Owner]

FOR THE WIN!!

[Asker]

thats nice hun

[YourFutureEx]

They are socially backward people who use to try their luck on internet but because they are stupid and retard people, they fail on internet too.

[Anonymous]

They do think women want this. Because it's also the sort of thing THEY wish women would send to them, and they don't yet understand that women are different.

[Asker]

some guys are just stupid lol

[Opinion Owner]

It's no more stupid than women trying to make men jealous or playing hard to get, because they know that is what would work on them, and they assume it will also work on guys.

[jacquesvol]

They'll be just as disgusting towards other guys. Just in another way.
Some girls will be just as disgusting towards other girls and towards guys. Just in another way.

[ArchDruidMordred]

For some women innapropriate comments makes them wet.

[Asker]

even from ugly fat pedophiles? Or maybe he wasn't a pedophile, but he messages me when i was 16, he was 28 at the time if i remeber right...

[ArchDruidMordred]

Believe it or not many girls can't understand the difference between 16 and 28. It's sad.

[Asker]

i dont get it... lol

[Anonymous]

Men do what works. It didn't work with you specifically. But it's worked enough the bloke tried.

[Asker]

im would be suprised of any woman in the world would be turned on by a "wanna fuck" message from an ugly, fat man. But i guess its prefernces

[Opinion Owner]

It works better when the guy is good-looking, really high success rate. Actually, trying to hold a conversation over text has poor results if you're a good-looking guy. "Wanna fuck" is about all you should send.

[Anonymous]

bottom line... SEX
It's what the human male was designed to do and that is what is on his mind, some just don't know how to go about it so they send dick pics