Have you dated a man who wouldn’t stand up for himself, and did it change how you saw him?

[KindaCowardly]

Have you ever dated someone who couldn’t (or wouldn’t) stick up for himself or defend himself in certain situations? how did that affect the relationship if it even did? did you see him a bit differently after that?

[Anonymous]

Well these days it's getting dangerous for anyone to do that, there was an old man in a Walmart who yelled at a girl working there for hitting his wife with that big cart they use to gather delivery groceries. Instead of apologizing or even acknowledging her, the girl threw a can of something at the guy, and 15 minutes later her parents showed up and the father killed the guy.

[KindaCowardly]

Well that’s just awful! 😣

[Nikki1989]

There was one a very long time ago. I felt more like a babysitter than his girlfriend.

[KindaCowardly]

Can you give any examples of a situation that made you start feeling that way towards him?