Would you trust or become friends or date a man who didn’t pay attention to you before you had some sort of glow up or makeover?

[Ndiwitnt]

Guys are hitting on me and it’s annoying af. I just changed my hair. Guys are so shallow. But my crush changed towards me too. That means he’s a shallow pos. Crush is disappearing. Never date a man who only pays attention to you when you look conventionally attractive.

[DishLady]

I've never heard the term "glow up" before. I presume that's some new young person's term.

I've never had to do a big makeover to get a guy's attention.

I did generally have to "find my look" in college and make minor updates every 5 years. A lady should have planned revamps every milestone year (25, 30, 35, 40, etc.)... update hair and clothes, exercise regimen and all that. Not for a guy, but just for yourself.

[Yannae]

To any girl reading this question. Don't you do it. Stay away from them.

[sirderpsalot123]

How many questions are you going to ask about this?