Would you date someone who majorly dissed you before you had your glow up?

[Anonymous]

No way! I have no time for clearly superficial people

Yes, I put the time and effort in so that I could attract people that I once couldn't get

Depends on if they have sincerely changed since then/have apologized for their actions

A total of 68 votes were cast: 43 girls and 25 guys. See detailed results

[weasley8]

No one's ever really been a jerk to me about my appearance, even in middle school when my teeth were crooked, my mother would only let me wear metal glasses that looked like they were from the 80s, and my hair was dead and a frizz mess.

The only people that were jerks then were boys who didn't know how to interact with the opposite sex (and maybe that one girl that convinced her seventh grade boyfriend to try to intimidate me and step on the fairy house I made at recess because I wouldn't give her a rubber ball). I don't even remember most of what they would say. Silly insignificant things that as an adult, I don't think actually meant anything. I remember one comment, and it was that if the little stuffed animal dog that I carried around in my pocket were real, my pulse alone would be enough to kill it. Silly stupid things like that. I suppose it was technically before what I would consider my "glow up," but it had nothing to do with my appearance. It had to do with the fact that I was a kid, and a boy wanted to bother me, and couldn't think of anything other than to make fun of my favorite toy. Far worse things have happened in my life than that.

So I guess if one of those people wanted to date me, why not, supposing they're not a total jerk? They've grown up since then. So have I. I no longer built miniature houses out of sticks, leaves, and dirt for one thing.

[btbc92]

You got to be crazy. Unless it clearly shows their remorseful and changed and you can trust that, no way. They're better signs of shame and guilt before repentance before I would even say yes to a date. But 9/10x There would be too much hurt for me to desire to.

[Anonymous]

No I wouldn't date someone who dissed me for any reason. My pride is something I value over mostly everything else, for better and for worse...

[sjoes006]

Pretty much no coming back from that. Awkward teen 12-14 turned out with boobs.

One notices the difference in treatment.

Nope.

[Anonymous]

Had a middle school dance I attended and a girl didn't want to put up with my shy shtick to dance with me. Later in high school I walked into a local store to buy something and she was working there. Her jaw dropped and she gushed all over me saying "you probably don't remember me but...". Yeah, I remembered her, but didn't give her much attention. It might seem petty, but she was a complete bitch to me at that dance when she could have been cool. It's just a dance and an opportunity to be nice.

Too many nice people in this world to put up with people like that. Maybe if she apologized, but she didn't. Her loss. Life turned out great for me and I wish I could tell my younger self that as it would have been easier to know years ago.

[hahahmm]

No. They’re a-holes & I don’t date a-holes

[Anonymous]

No I used to be bigger in middle school and girls made fun of me I’m in highschool now lost the weight and low key attractive soI’ve overheard, it’s weird being bullied by girls as kid made me not attracted to them as I’m older which sucks but I just have no patience for them

[Lman3000]

Nah, if you made fun of me in the past and now find me attractive out of nowhere, go fuck yourself, I'm not dating someone to use me as a show off, or view me as eye candy only fuck those kind of people those are the real ugly fucker there

[Anonymous]

I don’t care as much if they’re so called “superficiall” and didn’t want to date me cuz they said but why be an asshole?

[luvstoned4him]

No, he has already shown his true colors

[Anonymous]

No the girls who dissed me were ugly. I've been framed by a baddie before though. Smh

[Hurlyburly]

Nah. I'm not into superficial people.

[Rain_mf]

Nope. Never! Especially the jerk at 15.

[WarmSunflower]

Nope! They don’t deserve me.

[blondfrog]

No I have way more pride than that.

[JamesBoradil03]

if they were as attractive as me...

[Notallways]

Whats a glow up? Typo or term I’m unaware of?

[Asker]

A glow up is the complete transformation of a person's appearance for the better. Like if you were teased a lot for your looks as a kid, and then you like hit puberty, and now you're stunning, or maybe you lost a ton of weight and are looking super fit now...something like that.

[ronaldo75]

I would fuck and vanish.

[LuWe22]

No. I don´t wanna see their faces again.

[goldfleur]

Nooo waaay

[frerardsprincess]

Definitely not

[Girl2890]

If he was my crush hmmm maybe 🤔

[AngelLily]

No way.

[lovedejj_xo]

No lol

[Agem123]

I don't think so.