Girls, what do you actually look for in the talking stage with a guy?

[Anonymous]

[HollyK21]

Hmm, talking or dating? Because in my opinion, talking phase is what happens before that first date, and dating is what follows once you decide you’d like to see each other again. Giving her a title comes about 3 months in. Anyway, I look for consistency, first and foremost. Everything else will fall into place if it’s meant to, such as good vibes, whether or not we click, etc. But from the start though I’m keeping an eye out for a facade, like efforts to stop or things you were regularly doing to end as well.

[Abbycado]

Do you mean like what we do or what I learn or?

[Asker]

Just anything - when you give him your number what made you give it to him? Was it his looks?

[Abbycado]

Initial contact, it was looks. After chatting, it was personality that won me over and got my number to meet again.

[Nikki1989]

Personality, Communication, and Intelligence.

[lilBigPotato]

Signs of intelligence, humour, common interests...

[EmmaMary]

Personality and Communication.

[rgb008]

To talk 🥹😊