Have you ever been rejected for being too calm on a date?

[Dan_5001]

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I did last week & now my rejection tally is at 99 .

[OneViewpoint]

There's calm and confident and then there's quiet and boring. Do you know which one she meant? And you can never totally dismiss the possibility she was an idiot and her opinion should not be given too much weight. If she needs a performer to entertain her constantly and you're not that guy, be grateful she self eliminated and stop worrying about it. Maybe she wants a guy doing lines of coke to be the life of the party.

[OneViewpoint]

I'm an introvert who generally doesn't engage with a lot of women. I'm not shy. I'm just very picky about who I surround myself with. My calm quiet seems to have the opposite effect of what you got in this case on a lot of women. The more I resist the harder they try to chat me up. What I get a lot is that I give off a chill confident vibe but very little information about myself. That seems to drive some women nuts and they are determined to meet me whether I want to meet them or not. 😂

[Dan_5001]

No, she stated that I didn't act like Gen z man, which is true I don't & wouldn't kw how to. Then start talking about how calm & relaxed I was, which baffled me even more.

[JHNS98]

Once. This really hot 9th-grader visited my high school and my class had "custody" of her, for lack of a better term. I asked her out, but the date was really awkward. We met at a café, but neither of us said anything to the other during the whole time we were there.

[Kvass]

I've rejected someone for being too calm he was like a talking corpse. I prefer playful guys.

[Dan_5001]

You mean toxic choatic

[Kvass]

Nope just alive, something a boring dude like you can't understand

[Dan_5001]

If you have fetish for degenerate guys, then that's your problem once they hurt you.

[Kvass]

Nice little excuse to make yourself feel better

[KindaCowardly]

ahahaha get him! 👏

[Dan_5001]

Is this your boyfriend?

[KindaCowardly]

i don’t know either of you. she roasting u and I think it’s funny is all.

[RFC1872]

Gotta make em laugh. You gotta put them at ease. But most importantly, you can't really care too much. It's a presence thing, I guess. I never had any issues. Honestly, I could not have cared less. Always another one.

[Dan_5001]

No, she didn't reject me because of personality, but because of how calm & laidback I was & that I didn't act like Gen z, man said it was a red flag.

[rgb008]

If a man doesn’t give me a little jingle of his keys, I’d assume not interested 😳😩🫢🤫🤫🤫🫶🗝️🫡🥹🔑

[Dan_5001]

Don't kw what that means being I'd guess it sexual.

[rgb008]

No like shake his keys at me at the table. I literally love it 🥹🥹🥹🫶🗝️🔑🤫

[DryGermanGuy]

I have rejected a girl because of that. It was like talking to a picture of her. 🙄

[happyoldman]

😅🤠

[zagor]

Yes, though fortunately the waiter put out the fire on her dress with her water glass.

[Alex-Snow]

Not really.

[scott04sa22]

It happens

[Anonymous]

Nope