Why do less modest women seem to attract better men than modest women?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Because men in general usually don’t want ska la. Yes yes I know women are going to say I see men w them all the time. Yes that is true. A man wants a skank if he’s just looking to bang her. Easy as that. W women like that you don’t need to put in much effort. It’s like Shaq dunking on a 7ft rim. W women who we actually want relationships, yes we still want a girl who can be a freak in the sheets but not out in public w every man. We realize that her reputation could potentially hurt the family name, it could have consequences on our future kids as well. All these women who say men want experienced women. Yes, for one night stands. Most men want a girl who is innocent, who knows little to nothing in that department when it comes to wanting a relationship. The same is true w life. Men live through women’s experiences. If he mad her happy he’s happy. For instance a trip overseas. If she’s been a million times it’s nothing to her, so he doesn’t get that same feeling he would w a girl who’s never been overseas or on a luxurious vacation in general.

[stevenkelly]

Honestly, I don't think it's necessarily that they attract better men. It can just look that way because confident or more openly expressive women may get more attention and make their interest easier to notice. The quality of the men they attract is a separate thing entirely.

[Mark_Est]

Men have 2 boxes. Just for sex and for marriage. Men dont say no to easy ass, but men dont value such women.

Secondly, normal men dont deal with some std farmers anyway. It is disgusting. No normal man is in the Bonnie Blue line, waiting their turn. That is what dealing with modern women is.

Traditional men value traditional women, fit feminie virgins. You just need to spend time where they are and go talk to them.

[NathanDavis]

attraction is usually, if not always... a multi-factor situation that's going on...

you could see one woman attracting more people, based on few other factors, but none of these being modesty

but if you personally focus only ON YOUR OWN perception and idea of what modesty is... then it will seem to you like that's what happened, when it wasn't even a facto considered by the rest, lol

[HighValue]

What do you mean by "better?"

And are they in a relationship with them for 10 + years, or just short term temporary and getting used like usual?

There's a big difference.

[LazerBean]

I guess if depends on your definition of modest and better

[lilBigPotato]

Because good men are still visual creatures so you attract more, good and bad ones.

[UniquelyBasic]

What's your definition of better? Looks, Money, intelligence? Depends on what you mean by better.

[Nikki1989]

Modest women tend to be boring.

[Agape93]

Because modest women are usually boring

[jahaims]

They don't. They get quantity not quality