Should she leave him if he wants her to change her body?

[Anonymous]

[HollyK21]

If he’s harshly demanding that you change your body, I think he’s showing a lack of respect and a desire for control. Staying with someone who treats you like this will only chip away at your self esteem and make you feel insecure about your worth. If I were you I’d ask myself why I’d even consider being with someone under those conditions, because you deserve to be with a guy who builds your confidence up instead of tearing it down.

[Danny_dan92]

Nobody should be content being with someone who wants them to look like something they naturally aren’t

[KostasKouvalis]

It depends what the change is. If it's some small temporary comstetic thing like shaving or a certain nail length/color, NO. If it's something permament like a tattoo or cosmetic surgery than yes

[NoDecision]

I would think so.

[FreyaRed]

I what way should this "body change" happen?

[Asker]

He’s asking her to lose a ton of weight even tho she’s not obese just slightly overweight

[FreyaRed]

It looks like he has a desire for a positive change and if he doesn't demand this too harsh I think he doesn't deserve to be dumped.

[Asker]

Demanding it harshly

[FreyaRed]

Well, then bye bye

[Nikki1989]

She should. That is disrespectful to the extreme.

[slatyb]

Generally yes she should. This is seriously controlling.

[Alex-Snow]

It is her body and her choice not his. If he does not like how her body looks he should leave. What does he want changed?

[bowenw]

Red flag. Leave.

[Anonymous]

How exactly he wants her to change it?

[Pterodon]

Definitely

[MasterKS]

yes its nonsense.