so would questions designed to get to know her like "what do you do for fun?", "what music do you like?" be considered boring conversation topics?
oh damn, I usually ask those question to figure out what she's like. I guess I better stop so I don't bore any more women..
No, sorry. I meant those questions are engaging and fun. So sorry, I read your comment wrong
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so how should the guy start the conversation then?
#1...keep it to a minimum. Especially if you are just starting out. Too much isn a turn off. A little here and there will keep her wanting more and keep her excited when she does hear from you.#2... Make sure you get a response before you send more. If you don't hear from her, give it a day or two and try again. If you don't hear anything...she is ignoring you.#3 if you really like her, call her. Keep it simple and short. No more than a few minutes to discuss whatever you need to.