would you date a girl who is shy and wants to take things slow? even things like kissing, cuddles and holding hands is a bit much for me if I have only known him for a few weeks. how slow is too slow?
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Sorry but that's just too slow. Occasionally touching the hand comes after 3 or 4 meetings (they don't have to be dates as long as they as long conversations). Kissing comes naturally after I feel the girl is comfortable with me touching her hair. As far as cuddling goes, kissing basically is a green light to cuddling. I usually assume (most guy probably too) that the girl doesn't like me if she has issues with me touching her hands at least. Sorry that's just me :-(
Btw I know a couple of guys (who are virgins), that don't have an issue with how your behaving. I think you behavior is fine, with guys that are virgins. Hope it helps :-)0