Am I moving to slow?

[SubtleGuy29]

Met this girl at who works next to me for Panera bread. I go daily to just get some tea or sometimes a cookie. I see her ever so often thought she is very cute. Fast forward I seen her at a club and we made eye contact a lot that night I didn’t say anything really. So then I saw her again at the Panera bread and brought it to her attention that I saw her and we had a little conversation I wanted to make a move but I didn’t I just kept it cool. So my dilema is it’s been a few weeks now of just little words and eye contact and honestly I’m very nervous. And I honestly don’t know what to do I just don’t want the opportunity to pass but I also don’t know if there is an opportunity I’m still pretty new to the dating and flirting scene

[Curmudgeon]

I suggest that the next time you go into Panera Bread you leave her your card (if you have one as part of your job), or just give her your receipt with your number on it, with a message like "Thanks! (Your Name) (Your Telephone Number).

What is the worst that can happen? You are embarrassed forever and never return to that Panera Bread?

[SubtleGuy29]

Lmao thanks I get lots of opportunities with her I just take one

[Curmudgeon]

So UPDATE - what happened?

[RavVid]

Well probably she likes the club you saw her at because she went there. And you both making eye contact. You could ask her if she likes that place. Then follow up with would you like to go there with me? I think you are being ungentlemanly if you don't.

[MoniqueTLC]

Frequent eye contact, especially on a night out is a good sign. I definitely think it's time for you to ask her out. Just be casual about it, the next time you go in there ask her if she'd like to catch up over a coffee or anything you'd like to do. You've got this!

[slatyb]

How hard is this? "Can I take you to dinner sometime?"

[RedStealthOperative]

We miss 100% of the shots we don't take.

[In_Trance]

Too slow

[SubtleGuy29]

Noted 💯

[bepis_]

Ditto for one of the comments probably