When ever people say this it just sounds like the person that they supposedly "stole" has literally no say in anything like they are and inanimate object or something. I think this is literally the stupidest saying and puts the blame on the wrong person. For example two girls are friends one girl has a boyfriend the boyfriend ends up with the other girl but the girl gets blamed and not the guy isn't the guy's fault in that situation. Opinions?
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I completely agree with you. I've seen it happen so many times, the boyfriend cheats but its the other girls fault. Your boyfriend is the one who is suppose to be loyal and faithful to you. Why should some random woman care about you? Would she even know a girlfriend exists?
In the scenario you've mention, however, both the girl and guy are to blame in equal measures. Unless its my sister or close friends then its all going to land on him. But perhaps if women showed a little more camaraderie and a little less jealousy and competitiveness then this sh*t might be a little less common.1