i haev tuh say 'stealing' isn't nice. but if a guy wanted me when I'm already taken...all he has tuh do is treat me better than the guy I'm with...simple really. don't try to cause problems..don't try to instigate crap...or overdue the woeing thing...let her know your there for her...put your name in the bucket so your first in line if crap does go down. stay out of the friend zone by becoming her 'special friend'...and by tht I mean by making it aware tht you like her and tht you are not intending to stay just friends...no confusion...make it known your there if she needs u...u got a flat tire? ill pick you up and chage it for u...ur lost? I'll come fnd u. your too drunk tuh drive? I chaperone you home...a chick wanst tuh jump u?...i'll mace the ho..wouldn't want you ruining tht pretty hairstyle of yours setting tht trick straight... :) again, I don't condone 'stealing' but if the guy can't compete..he can't really defend her to keep her...and if he KNOWS your competition and still doesn't up his game...then thtz completely on him for losing her. tht just seems fair tuh me... :)if a chick came up to my boyfriend and likes him and is giving him an option, yeeeah...imma show him why he should stick with me.
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Get some rope, a gun, a gag and something to tie around her eyes. Sneak into her house at night, knock her out with that cloth that is infused with some chemical (I forgot twhat they put in it) and when she is unconscious, tie her up and put her in your car. Then when she comes around, make sure you put a gun to her head and tell her not to scream or else. Then kiss her neck and have some amazing sex. She will come to you for SURE!
he he he he... oh boy I wish that was done to me.
But in all seriousness, get your own damn woman!
Dude... you don't do that :\ that is just selfish and down right nasty, think about how you will make her boyfriend feel first before you think about your own selfish desires, you don't deserve her if you don't care about anyone else's feelings but your own, I would never even consider dating a guy who tried to do that for one second as all it smells is disaster, back off dude and find a girl who is single because all this will end in is heart break or you getting your nose punched in if her boyfriend found out, your just playing with fire.
I stole my wife from her live-in of the time. She was willing to be stolen, and we just hit it off so well that I didn't hesitate. No guilt at all! There was someonher side. I just gave her my heart and soul. That sort of impressed her.
So if you really like her, I say go for it. But in that situation, you have to mean it, mean everything you say, and be willing to risk getting turned down, risk looking foolish.
Thats happened to me as well!
Now, I'm not saying it will work out for you..not all girls are ready to be stolen! But it's OK to try.
I've read that girls love opportunistically. That means that a Girlfriend may seem very into her Boyfriend but as soon as she finds a better option (an option that wants her too) she'll take it provided her social reputation is still intact (discretion). How to steal a GF? Be a player with very tight game and work the girl with lots of discretion.
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I don't think is the right way to get a girl,but hey how many men out there get involved with people already in a relationship or women. The most logical thing would be " get another girl" she might be in love with her boyfriend and you have no chance at all on getting her,unless you can make her fall in.lovs with you. Question,would you like the idea of another man trying to get your girl? I don't think the perfect man exist and my boyfriend is the perfect man for me,can't change him for another one.
DON'T go after her. A guy that I had an old crush came along and DESTROYED everything for me by giving me attention that I'd been craving. (I'm easily manipulated). He had all the right things to say and did all of the right things. I cheated on my love and now I can't even look in the mirror without being entirely disgusted with myself. I'm losing my man because of it and I don't know what to do. This altogether, is just a bad thing to do to yourself, the girl, or her boyfriend.
Alright now first of all don't listen to any of these girls what you should do is just keep her as a friend, comfort her,keep her as contact and if you treat her right if she breaks up with her boyfriend then your opportunity arises but don't come on strong keep things mutual because you don't want to cause drama but at the same time talk to different girls keep your options open because in life there is no guarntees I'm not saying it is right to steal someone elses girl but if you really like her and she likes you back then maybe if she breaks up with her boyfriend you can ask her out but for now just talk to other girls who knows you might end up liking someone else.
you can't steal her. she's a person. its up to her to be with whoever she wants. tell her you're interested and hope she leaves her boyfriend and leave it at that. I mean what if you try to steal her away and fail? then youd feel stupid for doing something you shouldn't have done anyway. if she comes to you on her own you also don't have to worry about her being stolen from you
I have no idea what her personality type is but ethically I don't think or believe can happen if she truly loves her bf.
I have been in a situation where my ext ried to steal me back, but it didn't and could NOT happen.
I wonder have you tried to date other girls in the meantime?
doesn't hurt to see if there are better options maybe?That is such a nasty childish attitude for anyone to have.
If she heard you talking about her and her boyfriend and how you where asking how to steal her from him what do you think her opinion of you would be?
If you do something to spoil her relationship just so you can get with her she will never forgive you for playing with her life and manipulating the situation. If you care for her do the decent thing and wait until she is single...If I knew, I'd tell you. But honestly I'm in the same situation that you're in, vice versa. I am hopelessly in love with a guy who has a girlfriend. They've had relationship problems and I'm always there for him...If only I knew what I could do to steal him away lol.
We be in the same boat brotha. haha
Guess we best step up our game :PI'd only want to leave my boyfriend for another guy if I was having relationship troubles and wanted to end my relationship anyhow, and the 'other guy' was someone I was attracted to but hadn't pressured me into a relationship when I was already in one.
Basically, be there for her but don't try to be with her. I personally wouldn't want to date a guy who sees relationships as something that could be thrown away soon as there is another option, and I certainly wouldn't want to date the guy who put pressure on my previous relationship.What would make me want to leave my boyfriend for another guy? That's easy. All you would have to to is suck out my brain and replace it with one of a bitchy whore.
Give it some time, eventually they'll break up and then you can show her how you're better for her than her last guy. If you try to get her to leave she'll probably just end up hating you.
Be better looking than her boyfriend and tell her you are interested. It isn't sure to work though, there is no way to steal any girl you like.
Don't try to "steal" her, she's not an object, besides, do you really want a girl who will just leave you when someone "better" comes along? Just be her friendand hang out with her casually and eventually Her boyfriend and her will break up and You will be there to comfort her. Ask her out once she is over him.
What can you offer her that her boyfriend can't. Are you better looking than him, funnier, do you treat her better, do you know her better? If so, then show your interest and show her what makes you worth more to her than her current boyfriend.
Don't do it. Suppose someone tried to do the same to you. She has someone..you might as well just let it go. It's not good to be taking someone elses gf.
Leave their relationship alone...
Just stay away and look for someone els...
They are happy right now...
Anyway it isn't guarenteed that she will like you...LOL just leave it alone buddy. You are just going to create drama in your life. And not to be rude but I don't know how you look like so unless you are super hot, I don't think the girlis gonna leave her best friend/boyfriend for you.
If you can "steal" her then so can somebody else. Look for single girls..
Don't do it! She will most likely try to work things back out with him depending on if they dated long or not. Don't be that type of person
you can only do this when there is no real relationship between the girl and the guy...when they are really in love, its difficult
Honesty you'll just have to wait, you wouldn't want someone to do that to you
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