why do they like or fall in love with them when some thugs don't give a sh*t about nobody but their self.
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In my experience, it has been that some girls have a false idea of the guy who goes after what he wants, and doesn't accept less.
I think in general, women want a guy that takes charge, isn't a wimp and demands respect.
And for the most part, as young people there really isn't any power to be had, other than to be school yard bully. And by being that guy, jerks present themselves as the first example of a take charge kind of guy. Because they are going after what they want and not accepting anything less.
Unfortunately, that is NOT the guy women want, but because these are young women, they are still learning what it is that they are going to be attracted to. They know for sure they want the guy who does not accept loss, and gets what he wants. They just are not sure of the limits, or what characteristics they want to compliment that drive, and how that drive should be properly managed.
Therefore the jerks win for the first five to ten years. But by the time girls get into age 25-30, the jerks have shown themselves for what they really are, and that is unattractive, and thus those girls who have become women realize the mistake and then look for the right guy with the right kind of take charge attitude, and the right sensibility.
If only those girls could catch on quicker.0