This question is for the ladies who've experienced this. My boyfriend usually texts me every day and says good night and now lately texts have been getting less frequent and I didn't hear from him at all in almost 2 days. I don't want to text him because I want to give him space. I just don't get why he's doing this. I know he's working but everyone gets a lunch break, so cmon, there's no excuse. I don't want to make a big deal about it so I'm not going to say anything to him. I just don't get it. I saw him about 5 days ago and it was great. So I just don't understand why he'd stop talking to me. I want to wait for him to contact me..should I?
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Don't contact him. He's got too comfortable - he's just getting over the first flush of 'new relationship' and is cooling off. I guess it's now you'll find out whether there's any solid foundations in this relationship. Maybe he's the type who needs a constant challenge, in which case you might try being unavailable at least once a week (you're staying in on your own, or you're going out with a girlfriend, whatever - just enough to keep him from regarding you as 100% owned). Sad to admit, but my own 'standard relationship' with women only ever lasted six/seven months before I got bored and moved on - it wasn't until I met my wife that I realized what I'd been doing - and she's kept me in that 'first flush' for more than 12 years just by holding back that last 1% of herself; thus the challenge for me to 'conquer' remains! I guess all I'm saying is to always keep a little of yourself back, just to keep him interested and intrigued... and hint that you always have other options available to you...1