i know how you feel I am 19 & my parents also won't let me date. maybe you could just invite him & another friend over & introuduce him "as a friend" but tell him beforehand that that is the plan. in that way he has met them but not as your boyfriend. I know that if you introduce him as your boyfriend that it might mean the end of you. my parents are also about school comes 1st blak blah blah & I too do well in school. so if you maybe have close cousins or sisters etc that are cool with you dating. at least let him meet them. in that way he has met some family & won't think that you are ashamed of him & just making up excuses. cos I know not all people understand how such parents can be. its scary to even think about introducing someone as your boyfriend to them. hope I helped :)
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well your an adult and you are perfectly capable of making your own choices in my opinion
your capable of choosing weather or not you want to follow their religion regardless of what anyone thinks or says
sneak out at night while everyone is sleeping and return before everyone wakes up
or you can go on your date regardless of what anyone says and get married to whom you want
when you feel the time is right
whatever you choose though make sure it makes you happy
its your life not anyone else's and life is too short to be unhappy
good luck
Now is the time to stage your rebellion :)
I said stage, not commence with. A few things need to be done first.
The first step is to finish school and get out from home. Then you will be telling them, not asking them, about your boyfriend.
Which religion do you belong ? if you don't mind telling me.
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you are 20, you can date. If your father can't accept that he's ridiculous
That is a bit extreme
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