Polls: Dating

Hi. I'm a 15yr old girl who has been having major backpain due to my chest size. I've been looking into some options in order to reduce them, but it seems as if my only options are getting a surgery or losing weight. I'm already at a very healthy, lean weight, so if I lost any more pounds, I'd be really weak. I'm in immense pain, and I can't fit into a lot of the clothes I want. The only thing keeping me from getting the surgery are the scars, which are insanely noticeable and pretty big. I don't want this to tear down my confidence if I'm ever dating a guy and they mention how ugly it looks etc.

I'm wondering what your opinions are about this. Thanks.

Imagine you're single and ready to mingle if you aren't. If you really don't like the 1st 2 options, I'll have a few more. If you have any strong opinions, please share. I'd love to hear from you.

In my case i do but as in it would be great to spend my life with someone like him (i love his nature). And i want someone like that to be my patner.

But feels gross when it comes to sexualizing him. Neither do i find him attractive

Kinda confused what kind of feelings is this towards him.

When you bave planned a date with someone (that they proposed in the first place) and they do not text you at least one day prior or do not mention/confirm it at least some hours beforehand, do you go regardless or just not show up?

What are the time limits for beforehand communication you put in order to actually go to the date?

It's that time of year we all go to family reunions and parties. For a lot of people this means bringing there partner along and the inevitable group photos.

But is there any truth in the notion if your partner just sees you a temporary until they can upgrade they'll put you at the side so you're easier to edit out?

Men stereotypically are attracted to women in their late teens/ early 20s. Would a 26 year old also be a stereotypically attractive age?

I hear this... A LOT. I actually asked in a group on FB on how to find love, how the people have found their s/o and pretty much everyone answered the same.

Here are the answers:

"Don't look for it, because love will find you if the right chance comes."
"Stop looking it will happen"
"Quit looking... it will find you when you quit looking."
"Don't look for it, let it come to you!!"
"dont look on the web,, get out and find them in person"
"Don't look. It will find you when it is the right time."
"Stop looking. What is meant to be will come to you."
"There is someone for everybody, don't be desperate to find that one and you will stumble across the one you need when you least expect it."
"The harder you look the more difficult it will be to find."
"Select DON'T settle."
"Stop looking, you will find each other when you least expect it."

I do like the don't settle, my guy friend is telling me all the time to lower my standards... he doesn't understand.

Do you agree?

I work remotely so only interactions I’ve had with these people are through teams. I’ve been there almost a year, so far I haven’t had any negative interactions with the people on my team. Today after we all met my boss sends me message separately wanting to speak. She started it with saying that she doesn’t want to read into my body language during the meeting too much but it looked like I rolled my eyes & she wanted to know there’s something I’d want to discuss with her. I told her no & had to ask if this was the first time I gave this impression. She said no it’s happened enough for her to want to bring it up today. I told her it’s been a few stressful weeks & it’s all fatigue, if I did it’s nothing against her. But if she’s been saying I’ve been doing this for a while then I have no excuse to back that up. I have two monitors, one on top of desk & other at eye level so I had to bring that up, she said she didn’t want to bring it up at our 1:1. I told her that I’m pretty responsive communication wise & didn’t think overall I came across that way, I said that to imply that I have no issue communicating with her. I’ve been pretty open with her, she said her bringing this up had nothing to do with my work ethic this is all regarding “attitude”. With all the communication we’ve had in the past, she’s said positive things for the most part & this is the first time I really felt tense talking to her. She honestly seemed kind of upset, tomorrow is our 1:1 for the month & I’m kinda nervous.

They had a dog and they both have a pic of her on their header but its a different man on her profile picture and she has a different last name
She isn't in his profile picture nor is she anywhere on his insta at least i think
he's been using dating apps and claims he was single and no wedding ring

Im fairly sure theyve split up at least?

Assume you’re attracted to her or him but also know that they recently went on a date with someone else. Would you still ask them out (if you are also single)?

Bonus question, do you prefer your partner to be taller or shorter than you?

The cute girlfriend in this case really cares about you, hugs you, smiles and giggles a lot when you’re around.

The sexy girlfriend is confident, hot, seductive, mysterious and of course sexy. She entices you.

Which one are you choosing?

Do you like me in white or black?

For example, they told you they have a low body count but actually slept with 10 people or they said their previous relationships ended on good terms but they cheated or their ex was coco.