Playboys are mostly guys who once loved a girl truly with full loyalty who became a playboy after she left him heartlessly by breaking up. Agree?

[Anonymous]

Agreed

I don't agree with this

[Anonymous]

For the most part yes I’d agree, but of course it’s not the case for everyone. I’ve seen men treat women this way because they witnessed important figures in their lives like dads, uncles, hell even celebrities they looked up to, act that way and now mirror that behavior. I’ve even seen men who’ve never been in love but have had some pivotal disappointments and let-downs by women they were either dating or actually saw the potential to make that happen, so now they don’t take any woman seriously. That’s why I often tell people to formally cut ties if they can stand it, rather than cheat or ghost, or both. All of our actions have ripple effects and even if to us it doesn’t seem like a big deal, in can be very impactful for the person on the receiving end and help shape how they’ll treat someone going forward.

[Asker]

I agree with your opinion that it will definitely impact other person based on how they treat them. It is better to cut ties formally rather than ghosting, cheating, etc.

[Opinion Owner]

Absolutely. It’s so much healthier and unselfish to just end something rather than take those other routes. But unfortunately there’s too many men who base their actions off of what someone did to them and as a result, those women cling to bad situations because it’s so normalized.

[Asker]

Yeah, true

[jennifer_bloom]

Hugh Hefner was cheated on by the love of his life before he became a serial cheater and sex abuser.

[Anonymous]

No! If that were the case, I'd say the possibility was ALWAYS there. People of good character tend to stay of good character. I may get to the point where I just choose to not date ANY woman. But I'm not going to punish a woman for another woman's action.

[Asker]

Not every guy who gets cheated or left will turn into a playboy. But there will be some guys who will turn that way. I agree with your opinion that there are guys who still stay with a good character no matter what situations they might have gone through in the past

[Anonymous]

Some of them.

They either get cheated on and decide not to get attached anymore, or some of them witnessed their parent's messed up relationship and saw their father get cheated on etc. Others just don't believe in love and weren't raised that way.

[Guy13]

Some react that way and some do not. Most guys have a spurt of that then it fades away and we start liking women and idea of relationship again.

[historectomy]

I see you also know shaggy