If women can spot fake men, why do some still choose playboys?

[Anonymous]

Why do women choose someone who is after their bodies and not after living and nurturing them.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Because playboys know how to not act like playboys and purposely choose their targets based on how well they can lie and manipulate them.

[Asker]

That seems true.
But then why do they treat other guys as the bad ones who genuinely want good for them?
How the tags are decided.
In their mind.
The person who has been with them and helped them for a long time. Is just a friend and someone who said "they aren't good enough for them"
Is the guy to end up with and getting hurt?
It doesn't make any sense to me at all.
by the way why I am the complaint box for the bad once?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

If they treat a “nice guy” like a bad guy, it means they know he’s treating the women in his life like objects, even if he doesn’t realize that’s what he’s doing. There’s a difference between genuinely good men and “nice guys.”

[lilBigPotato]

It's not always easy to spot but some also just have bad taste or are stupid.

[Asker]

Hmm 🤔 but how can I find someone who is not stupid but good enough to accept someone like me...

[Shrimpenjoyer]

Most of them who choose them have bad taste or stupid.

[Qiero]

Women want what they can’t have and pick all the wrong men as a pursuit

[Anonymous]

Because some women think playboys are "more exciting".

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for MHO

[Abbycado]

Because they are dumb.

[Asker]

I don't understand why?
But when I questioned being with someone who is genuinely good? They say something like they can spot out fake!
It's so confusing for me. Cause when I have strong feelings for someone, trying to get attention. The girl said that I am the bad guy who pretends to be good.
It hurts me so much
I have never been in a relationship but end up being the bad guy, how?
Am I not allowed to be happy or something?

[Abbycado]

Being a good or bad guy has nothing to do with ever being in a relationship.

[Asker]

But then why am I the one out?
Putting it this way, why don't I get anyone?
I am a bit ADHD so I do keep changing the topic

[Abbycado]

I mean, I wish I had a good answer, but it would be nothing more than a guess. I don't know you personally and therefore don't know what the potential issue is.

ADHD is not a dealbreaker.

[jahaims]

You think women have super powers or something?

[Shrimpenjoyer]

They super daddy issues

[Jeff51]

They want it.

[StoonMan]

I dont know.