Polls: Dating

Why and why not? Black women and black women mainly and only no nosy white men and girls. Lord knows y'all are always here...

I spend a lot of time at the Health Club and have met more than one person there that I have dated.

I like the fact that there are not many lazy people that go to Health Clubs other than the usually over weight ones that show up for a day or two right after New Years day and then you never see them again... lol

I do not run a matchmaking service. This is just a fun poll

I would choose option D. I would like to concentrate on my studies for now. Besides, falling in love with my age is too fairytaleish and definitely not possible long term.

My ex boyfriend was a liar I found out he lied about his age. I told him how I’m not fine with him following Instagram models wearing skimpy clothing, he didn’t understand how I felt then I told him. ‘So I assume you will be fine if I follow hot guys too’ He told me I couldn’t do that, I told him he better unfollow those women or I will end the relationship. I asked him for his Instagram account he said he’s going to delete Instagram. One week later, I found out he still didn’t delete his Instagram and the people he followed were mostly Instagram models. What a liar. I told my cousin what actually happened with tears in my eyes, she told me most men my age are selfish when it comes to lust. Next time if I want to get another partner I will tell him how him following Instagram models hurts my feelings if he still didn’t care I will say I will be following hot guys if that’s ok with you. He will definitely be insecure af. If he wants to follow Instagram models but is against me following hotter guys than him then he’s selfish just like my ex.

So I'm 33 and just was talking to a 27 year old. Im working and hustling and whereas he helps out with his parents cleaning business part time.

Everytime we go on dates I pay for everything except the one time he paid which is fine. I don't mind paying. I took him on adventures to places he's never been.

His parents lost a major contract and I tried to give him some help to get them back on their feet by offering to design and build a marketing campaign for them. He didn't take the offer which is fine.

I feel that I may be used as a sugar mommy and we had a date planned but I cancelled because I fear that I may play a role as the rescuer.
I have love for him and I care about him so much. I want to be his friend and be there for him. Am I horrible for leaving him at this time? I'm doing it tactfully and limiting my access to him until I move on. We haven't had sex yet and I don't think I will.

I haven't contacted my ex boyfriend for over a month now
I blocked his number and social media

Today he sent me an email saying he needs to talk to me
And i replied "ok i will call u after work around 6pm"

But i never called him

Then 1 hr later he created whatsapp and started messaging me
"U said 6pm.. wtf?"
And started calling multiple times
And messaging me a lot

I've been having a crush on my online friend for 2 months and I hate the feeling of it. It has made me insecure, unsettled and has occupied a lot of my time. I don't think he likes me back although he compliments me a lot. I want to confess my feelings to end this crush. But here are 3 things I am worrying about:
1. What if there's a chance that he will grow to like me if I keep talking to him, but I might ruin the chance by confessing too early.
2. What if he think I am weird to have a crush on him, because having a crush on someone online is stupid. I want to look cool and remain a good impression for him.
3. What if he starts to avoid me.

And I really want to know, if there's a chance that he may grow to like me as long as I keep talking to him, or if he doesn't like me back now, he never will?

For me it is.

I know I was raised in a not so pleasant household environment. That I still carry emotional and mental problems. That I have come across people more sane than me and we first became friends. But they were not interested in me as I was to them. Because they could see my insane characteristics and would leave me.

So me and my ex boyfriend broke up a month ago and haven't spoken since then

Yesterday he emailed something about his rent to his real estate
And then he sent me the email as well

Wtf?
Why would he do that?

Then I replied to him asking him

Then he said
- oh the message was for real estate
- then he started talking about how something happened at his job and now he lost his job
- and if i dont believe him then I can call his parents

Then he ended it with:
"My freedom is peaceful bye"

Wtf is wrong with him?