Do you prefer dating a rich girlfriend /boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

I prefer rich girlfriend/boyfriend

I don't have any preference

[KitsuneFoxSpirit]

I come from a well-to-do family. Very well to do. Generational. Not a cheap modern wealth like those @OlderAndWiser & @andreasderjuengere talk of. I know those sort.

More often than not that sort ruins the work their parents or grandparents did to create a successful "empire". A close friend of my uncle, in Europe, has a son like this... an embarrassment to his father as the brat has no intentions of taking over the business, just living the high life. The business won't be going to the son, it'll be going to a distant nephew who has worked his way from bottom rung to a manager. Because when they didn't have to work for it why would they understand what it takes to make money?

I don't act like the rich mentioned. Because for all the wealth my parents & their parents & their parents' parents expect you to earn your inheritance. Not just hand it over. What value is there in handing over the "empire"/wealth to someone who can't maintain it?
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The only indication I am better off than many is that I own two vehicles and these are not expensive vehicles just Hyundais. I do have a Mercedes. I don't use it for work. I will use it for going to business ventures, family business, etc., but owning a Mercedes is irrelevant to my job.

No one except my family knows my property has no mortgage. No one except family / closest friends (fiance) knows that I have 100 acres of land inherited from my grandmother. Because it's irrelevant.

And you know people who flaunt their money often only end up with the bottom rungs of society for partners. Gold diggers, losers that can't keep a job, etc.

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. My maternal great-grandmother was a brilliant woman who went from dirt poor to fantastic investor & multi property-owning landlord on her own hook (never remarried after 1st husband died in WWI). My mother's father's parents were landowners/farmers (one relatively modern ancestor designed/built the main buildings to a town that's named after him). And same with my father's mother's family - they owned land, multiple properties & the local community hall. I am not bragging just laying out the background.

[YungBahlr]

It’s not something I search for by any means in partner, but I can’t lie and say that I wouldn’t enjoy the perks of being exposed to that kind of lifestyle. People forget that being rich is more than just money, it’s a whole new world of networking you can intermingle yourself into if you know how to do it.


Nonetheless, having an emotionally healthy partner is a far greater requirement than wealth. No amount of money and opportunity can fill the pain of continuous abuse and neglect. I’m sure many superstars can tell you that.

[ohshee]

Not even a rich girl knows nothing except for how to be rich she doesn't know what it's like to be poor she doesn't know what it's like not to take a shower or be able to wash clothes or to drive your car because you have no gas that girl there knows all about life and can handle a situation when something comes up a rich girl would just freak out and try to call somebody to have it comes Rescuers or fix the problem right now and that just doesn't happen all the time I would take the girl who has had all the experiences in life and she probably has a better heart to and is a kinder person

[Avicenna]

Well, my experience in dating women who are rich or have wealthy parents is that they do spend a lot of money on you and usually expect a lot of money to be spent on them as well. If you have thrifty spending habits, that is problematic since they don't seem to understand the value of money.

[OlderAndWiser]

I've dated rich girls and I've dated poor girls. SOme of the rich one had an entitled attitude. More of the poor girls had a grateful attitude.

[ChasingtheWind]

Yes，finally I found that all I need is a warm hug and one to talk with. She should have big eyes，nice tits，white thighs，like my girl.

[Horror_lover92]

I don't really have a preference and I feel like I have went and going through this experience, my ex boyfriend didn't have money or a job, I paid for everything and even gave him money without asking questions and still loved him. My boyfriend spoils me like crazy buying me expensive stuff and everytime I see something I like, all of a sudden he's buying it. I love him but I honestly don't really like it because due to how girls treated him before he met me, I feel like he's doing it to keep me. And we will argue over this too many times to the point I gave up, so I usually just buy him stuff too now or helping his family with money without them asking me.

[APrettyLittleLady87]

Between working in medical and making $25/hour. Between my own online store. Between working as a consultant. I make a decent income. Over 150k last year.

I have never cared for money, even before making that. It's not my thing.

Money can buy you nothing that you truly want - to be respected as a human being.

Most people with money are seen as disposable banks. Look at so many celebrities when they die "relatives" - who have done nothing for that person but contributed to their fucked up life (e. g. Michael Jackson) - appear like slobbering vultures fighting over the scraps.

[WonderBell99]

I don’t have a preference.

My family is wealthy enough, so I do not care about my partner’s money. I would only care if he is not able to provide for himself and I, for certain, am not going to marry an aimless slacker with no goals or passion in his life.

I wouldn’t want to date someone who is famous though. I’m a private person and prefer my privacy.

[Djaay]

Thst is a very fair said statement. Im the same.

[WonderBell99]

@Djaay Thank you😊

[JustinTheGreat]

I mean I think someone being rich would be a plus to anybody. I’d much rather prefer to date someone’s who’s rich rather than someone’s who’s jobless and broke.
but I’m not a gold digger or anything, I wouldn’t go out of my way to ONLY date rich people

[Anonymous]

as long as she ain't working no dead end job like fast food or retail it wouldn't bother me if she was rich or not. i've dealt with women (never dated them) who had dead end jobs like restaurant and retail from their mid 20's to mid 40's and above and it was sickening to look at. these women waste their lives away on some dead end job they have no money not even a pot to piss in nothing to their name except maybe a shitty car or truck. they have no investments don't know the first thing about investing nothing it's sickening to think about

[Anonymous]

I don't date for money that is wrong. Though I would not turn down a rich girl either I mean if some men do who have a chance and refuse to date her. Long as there was not other reasons behind it then... their loss.

There are both men and women who turn down great people for... reasons and well... No need to get angry or anything it is their loss

[Anonymous]

I've watched many people change their minds once they get in a real situation and are actually around people who are doing big things. Trust me, saying and doing are completely two different things. Plus money is about as shallow as looks in the modern world of today so I don't know who y'all are fooling.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

It depends on why she's rich. If she got it herself then that's sexy just because of what it takes to get it. It also shows that we are more likely to have compatible approaches at things.

[Asker]

What if she have rich parents or won a lottery lol

[Asker]

Personally I find people with old wealth more attractive. I don't know but they have different class lol

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Class is fine. I grew up around some of that though and though it has its moments that's not really my style.

But we're speaking in such general terms there's only so much I can speculate haha

[menina]

I wouldn't date a rich guy. Rich people are usually arrogant and I already know that he would try to humiliate me because I'm not wealthy. It would be a toxic relationship.
So I would prefer someone with a "normal" income and lifestyle.

[Anonymous]

There's nothing wrong with her being rich but there are other factors that are far more important to me. I mean if I could choose between two women who were identical in every way except one had money, I would choose the one with money. But I date to find a life partner and generally women with money have issues that make them less likely to be good wives and mothers.

[petitedollbabee]

Having someone financially stable is nice but I wouldn’t date someone just because they’re rich. I’m comfortable living with basic needs rather than a lot of materialistic items.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

I have seen enough money till this point in my life that I discard it from my classification list, and solely focus on the person only. How the person is, etc.

[Jamie05rhs]

No, not really. It's not a deal-breaker -- I won't reject her because of that -- but I'd really prefer someone with a modest income like myself. It's not about the money; I just want someone who understands the struggle.

[humanearth]

I rather be with a poor person. At least they know what's going on in the real world

[Debris1]

No doubt about it, money is an attraction. Therefore, if all other factors are equal. I would prefer that he also be rich.

[Alwayreckles93]

I don't mean this in a rude way but in aurguments he will humiliate you for not having any money. I knew a few of my ex coworkers they got married for moneyatthe end they ended up in divorce because the relationship become so toxic because the wealthy partner was arrogant and humiliate them.

[glennos89]

Money ain't a criteria for loving someone and I really don't care of they are rich or poor. Money is materialism and it shouldn't be linked with love

[Kayla45]

Not in particular, but money helps I suppose.. only if his personality and behavior isn't selfish or jerkish.

[Phoenix98]

In all honesty I prefer to not be with really rich people. There’s the odd girl I’d make an exception for here and there. But in general though no thank you.

[bean2k21]

Depends on the girl. Amber Heard is rich, but there's no way I would subject myself to that kind of humiliation from a hypocritical SJW man hater like her.