How many dates in, should I tell him I’m a virgin and never had a boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

The 1st date

2nd date

3rd date+

BEFORE your first date

Only after you guys start dating

[Flower7]

After things are official. Until that happens, that info won’t even matter very much.

[Debris1]

I don't have a rule; however, if a guy is pressing, I let him know that if wants me, it will a ring and proposal. One guy implied I owed it to him after he spend spend a sever hundred dollars on a couples of somewhat expensive date. He was at least angry with me and said I was frigid and that I will be old maid.

[CountryWanderer]

I don't think there's a fixed rule, but early on you should discuss your principles and boundaries for physical intimacy.

[Berethor]

Before you start dating, you need to know if he likes it or not.

[Anonymous]

Why? You think that's relevant? I mean does it give you hangups and intimacy issues? Cause if not why do you think it needs to be said?

[Asker]

I’m very awkward and I won’t even kiss on the first date, so if he expects me to have sex within the first like month, that’s totally out the window. It might take me like 6 months to warm up

[Opinion Owner]

Exactly, that's my point. So many women think a clock starts when they meet a guy. "a countdown to sleeping with him". I assumed you would respond to my question the way you did which is why I asked. You don't owe him a timeline. YOU, not your body is enough. It shouldn't matter whether you've dated one or 10 guys. You think if a guy sleeps with you at some point he gets to fill out a comment card? Lol If he asks, you can answer. But it's not relevant! And if it is to him the problem is with him, not you.

[fireforeffect]

Why does he need to know at all? You should not be having sex until after you are married. Let him find out on your Honeymoon.

[killarney]

He would probably guess it anyway, you be shy and little nervous 😂

[EaterPeter]

After how many dates dating starts?

[Anonymous]

I say E is the right choice.

[Nahid1707]

Second 😊