I’ve been told I shouldn’t tell a guy im a virgin without dating first, but what do I say if he asks when my last relationship was?

[Anonymous]

Im confused how im supposed to successfully date because the question of your last relationship and when it ended usually pops up

[Truthatanycost]

This is only an issue because most women only date / and / or are attracted to guys that aren't compatible. Fact is, this wouldn't be an issue with a guy chosen through discernment and judged from within.

[HighValue]

Just tell them. If you don't then it looks like you have a bad promiscuous past because that is the only type people usually try to hide.

[Asker]

I feel like being a virgin at 18-21 is acceptable but being a 24 virgin, they’re just gonna assume I’m weird and not want to pursue me or if they do, it’ll be like for an ego boost

[LazerBean]

You should tell them up front, especially if you are wanting to wait with sex. It's a good way to weed out the hoes.

[sassy_receptor]

when i was in your position, i would lie because i was embarrassed

[slatyb]

Just need honest. If he doesn't like that, then he's not the man for you.

[es20490446e]

What about being honest?

[Asker]

I wanted to but I had like 50 responses from these guys on this app telling me to shut up lol

[es20490446e]

Well, at that point it is their problem.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Say you never been in a relationship.

[Asker]

Then he’s gonna know im still a virgin

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

So be it. If doesn't like you as a virgin then find someone else.

[shortster]

Just be honest.