Questions: Dating

There’s this one guy I think is so cute, but I’m worried he’ll think I’m weird if I make the first move and tell him I want to get to know him more. He’s a goalie, and I don’t think he talks to many other girls but I’m not sure and I don’t want to just be another one of his chicks, I want something kinda serious.

He’s also around 2 years younger than me, so I’m not sure if he’ll think that’s weird or not. I planned on messaging him and telling him I’m interested and that I don’t usually message guys and tell them I’m interested, so he won’t think I’m just being a slut or anything, but will he think I’m weird for making the first move? ALSO SOMEBODY let me know if this is a sign we’ve made eye contact multiple times.

I only see daddy’s favourite nasty whores succeeding.

I have literally NEVER seen a good successful woman.

Recently I've had a coworker join the team. We share a lot of the same interests. A couple months ago he asked for my number but I thought it was work purposes. Later that night he texted me about an anime. We've slowly been texting more and more. Started to play games together now, share instagtam reels probably daily. We have a really fun time talking and he seems to come over to my desk to talk quite a bit. A couple weeks ago I shared a reel of some nerdy food place and he says we should go! I said we should!! Schedules have been off to be able to but he still wants to. I know work should be a no, but I'm interested. My question is... does he just want a good work friend?