Fear of dating someone new based on looks?

[milkicow]

*Should read my previous post how traumatized I am*

After my narcissistic ex broke up with me I was able to sorta heal he had many problems I used on my journey to break my attachment. pills/alcoholism/cheating/narcissism/punching holes/police but I’m still weak. How do you go forward with someone new when you’ve haven’t been with anyone else. Im talking to a guy who’s fit/cute/life in order and I fear him being attractive as he is because after dealing with all that in the past the only reason I’m getting over my ex is on looks I very much still miss my ex personality when it as good.

[capriVib]

No, I’m not scared, but if I’m considering a serious long-term relationship, I care deeply about a girl’s past. Especially if she’s been with a man who exhibited Dark Triad traits (narcissistic, psychopathic, or Machiavellian). A woman who’s endured that kind of relationship often struggles to heal from the trauma. She might develop attachment issues, and in severe cases, it could lead to problems like infidelity. Frankly, that’s what worries me—it’s intimidating.

[bowenw]

Any relationship you get into right away will likely be a rebound one with a low probability of lasting.

[strateguy632]

You are not ready wait.

[MasterKS]

Just be natural. life will teach itself.

[Anonymous]

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