If a guy says he wants marriage and we only just met or started talking , is he just in lust with me? Or is he being serious or what?

Iotititi

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This happened multiple times…

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Sounds like love bombing to me. In general a person (guy or girl) can state on a dating profile or communicate to someone new they want to date and eventually get married. That’s healthy.

But if you just met a guy and within a short period of time ( under 6 months) he’s saying he wants to marry you., thats likely a manipulation tactic. And when he tells you this how do you respond?

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- Iotititi
  
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  Why is he choosing to use that tactic on me?
  
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- BarryLiverstone
  
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  Guys love bomb when they don’t intend on a long term relationship
  
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ohsheeT Follow
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He is in a hurry before you find out who he truly is he doesn't want you to get away

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- Itorotirt
  
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  How do you find out who a man is especially earlier on?
  
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- ohsheeT
  
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  You have to always have eye contact liste. To his words, he will tell you the truth the same time he is lying to you.. he will always be flirty. There are some guys out there who have never dated, and if you are his first or second, he might be thinking you are or could be his last, so I. Order to keep you he wants to marry you
  
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all men do this, love bomb then ghost for days

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- Iotititi
  
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  You are so young my dear and you have the best most correct answer in my experience.
  
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REPORTED...DUPLICATE.

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  Thank you for the MHO.
  
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Shiprex Follow
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Be careful with these kinds of rushed admissions of intent. It could be a ploy to get you to sleep with them

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Can't say without knowing his personality and behaviour.

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  You know him better than us
  
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- Iotititi
  
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  Just met these guys or just began taking so no I don't know them
  
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- wkhan_87
  
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  Maybe he can be serious or he just playing with your emotions, can't say anything without knowing him..
  Well you have to be careful
  
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butterly248 Follow
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Sexual probably sorry

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- butterly248
  
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  Ask reddit maybe
  
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It's either lust or they are scammers.

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Lust

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  Am I attractive to him?
  
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Only sexual

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😆😆😆

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