We’ve been dating almost 1 year. Said he still doesn’t know if wants us to get more serious yet but isn’t seeing anyone else. What’re his intentions?

[Anonymous]

Is he likely just having fun until something better comes along? Or is he genuinely seeing how things go with potential for more?

[Anonymous]

Only he can tell you the answer. Did he give you any reason at all as to explain why he’s still unsure? Maybe he’s still not ready, maybe he has commitment issues, maybe he just wants it to be casual, only he can answer that

[Asker]

I know. He said he’s not sure if I’ll find a younger model but I wonder if that’s just an excuse. He’s divorced.

[Opinion Owner]

Well now it’s up to you if you want to stick around and wait or just cut your losses and move on. He might still be scared of getting into another relationship after the divorce but I don't know lol

[Truthbewithyou]

He's likely having fun until something better comes along. It doesn't take a guy a year to figure out if he wants something serious.

[Pyrofox]

Maybe it's time for you to just take the lead if you know he's the one. Nothing wrong with being the first one to skip a stone to make ripples.

[Staximus]

Tell him to grow the fuck up and make a commitment, he's not in college anymore. Who has time for that wishy washy bullshit

[Asker]

My thoughts exactly!

[Asker]

I won’t be sticking around much longer anyway if it continues.

[WhitneySnow]

If he’s really not seeing anyone else he’s probably serious about you even if he doesn’t say so. He might be a little afraid of expressing feelings of commitment though.

[Raphaëlle]

Could be that he's just afraid of commitment if you two are serious.

[Wise4myage]

If he doesn't know by now, then why waste any more time on him?

[Asker]

How do I do that? I’ve already told him I think I’m more into it than he is.

[In_Trance]

his intentions? what are yours?