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Girl, no, just no. If he's married then you absolutely should NOT pursue him. Even if he makes a move, you should reject him. Do you really want to be the other woman? Why do you want to be someone's side chick when you can be someone else's girlfriend rightfully? How would you feel if your husband cheated on you? That's just wrong. You have not done anything yet, so that's fine, besides, I think its just a crush that'd slowly fade away. Attraction is okay, but that is the farthest you can go, anything more than that, is just a big no no.
It never ends well. Look, that guy just wants to get into your pants. Guess what? He's not mysterious, just a Chad who is an asshole, hiding his true mask. Find someone else who actually cares about you. You will miss out on a lot of good guys if you entertain Mr. Fuckboy's moves.4
He is obviously into you however I wouldn't recommend showing your interest or attraction because he will continue to do it and the thing is most ( not all) married men that do those things are for two reasons. One they want to feel like they still got it. That even tied down they can still pull someone. And two because there unhappy inside there marriage and are just looking for someone to screw and keep it moving. They'll never leave their wives that would be too easy. Whether it be because of children involved or because of something else. They'll never leave. They'll just continue to sleep behind their partners back until it eventually blows up in there face.1
I have been attracted towards a younger girl... although she initiated it, but now from 2 months she started acting in a bit weired way... she kinda keep ghosting me from 1 and a half months, so i also backed off and i also thaught that... it is against morals and ethics.7
What Girls & Guys Said
You're not the first to fall for a married man that looks all mysterious trust me he's not.
This never ends well, you either torture yourself end miss out on guys who might actually care about you or you end up wrecking his home and marriage which should make you feel even worse.
Just find someone else get your mind off him20
Seriously 😳 Little girl ! Grow up he is married don't you girls know what respect now a days means? You have to be kidding when I was your age at that time I was having a huge crush on the popular guy football player at that time. What the hell is that old dude thinking why isn't he flirting with a 30 year old lady? I guess this means that I am from a different generation.7
Even if he does your not alone, he is going to have his eyes on multiple young girls in his lectures. You are better of ignoring whatever this is. Nothing good will come out of it.13
If you think that you have anything to offer to this married man other than sex, you are clearly delusional. "Leave people man and find your own man..."22
Girl, no matter how good his fingers might feel on your pussy, he’s married! Not gonna work out.22
He’s a typical chad and you’re the typical female.
We both know you're gonna do it anyways, why bother asking?2
I think that you should avoid him. If he is willing to cheat with you then he is willing to cheat on you.10
I don't think you're delusional. So what are you going to do?1
He’s married. Forget about him lol3
HE's the one whose delusional.10
I love you ❤️10
yes you're delusional2
I know that boat recently myself. And the irony is I'm seeing her again soon for another professional context legitimately. Sigh.
It's tough. But as I'm learning myself after seeing someone ever more attractive than her and closer to my age, who's unmarried and single, versus that love you feel I've felt in this slightly older married woman.
I know in my heart it's best I stop giving any signs and focus solely on the second woman the one I saw after her (her being the married woman).
Similar to you and that married slightly older guy.
So yeah. In my own situation I'm just politely but calmly shutting off the feelings and redirecting them to this left handed redhead who's left handed like me. And that's a nicer ending 🤩😋🙏☮️😈
Was I helpful @Holo900? @Asker? 😋
Yes! Thank you
So what are you gonna do lady? 😯
@Holo900 are you okay lady? I read your update just now 🤩🙏
Oh okay ! haha
@Holo900 sorry if we or I misunderstood... crushes are harmless and natural... making the unnatural look natural 😈😈😜😜☮️
Thank you! I am okay 👍
@Hol900 you sound like an awesome woman who's personality is bubbly like mine. I also get crushes from time to time but I'm happy being a single man. Doesn't stop me from appreciating there are many beautiful women in this world...
Don't stress I'm not crushing on you here 😜😜😈
@Holo900 see above 🤪
You’re totally fine. You were very polite and kind and sharing with me your own experience so I appreciated that. I updated my post because there were other people who seemed to be severely misunderstanding my post to the point of calling me names. But your response was fine and I appreciate you
Sorry this keeps glitching and I keep replying a second too late. Your personality does seem super great and bubbly. 😀hoping the best for you always ~
@Holo900 thanks. You're nickname should be Holly. I like that name. It always makes me think of Christmas or pagan Yule. You know. I love that. Like mistletoe or Pine trees. You're a lovely soul "Hol." Do take care of yourself and bless you. Hey feel free to chat anytime or follow me to be able to message me anytime. You're a great spirit. I love hippy names even though I have not one myself. But on women the hippy names are awesome. They stand out like a hot natural fit redhead woman to me. And some women love fit redhead guys. I'm not redheaded but I have distant ancestors male and female who both were redheaded. Wow. 😈😈☮️☮️ I'm left handed and that's all I got genetically. Hahaha 🙏🙏😋☮️☮️☮️ peace Holly 😜